i think no matter how attractive u are or how famous u are u wont really have the affecction of a women untill u are not atleast a little bit of a bad boy
see zac efron and alexandra daddario the guy really likes her but she sees him as a friend and has some superiority vibe around him
he massivl turned her off in min 4.30 saying "u are an angle" LOL
u remember my bank cosultant (miss bikini germany) she was so much different to me last time sure she still was nice and said i smell good but she didnt eye fuck me that much or tried to get my attention like she did on wm
i also think healing is contradcitory to being a bad boy i started seeing my bad boy attitude disapearing when starting am6... maybe attraction sub dont need anyting else beside ogfs or even only of
if i become rich at some point i will prolly give up dating in general and only fuck escorts and amateur porn actresses, still dont understand the guys with money trying to find a decent girl and not fucking the gold diggers
That was painful to watch. I couldn't even watch it all. that girl isn't even hot. 6/10 at most for me.
But what is your definition of a bad boy Dzemoo?
And why can't you just be a bad boy like before?
(06-09-2017, 01:30 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]if i become rich at some point i will prolly give up dating in general and only **** escorts and amateur porn actresses, still dont understand the guys with money trying to find a decent girl and not ***** the gold diggers
I know right? Me too.
It's gotta be madonna/whore complex or a deep unfulfilled need to be loved.
Todays society is aimed at making guys like in this movie perfect betas they have muscles and shit but are now harm to.anyone
If your women is not afraid of u u are no bad boy she has to feel AS if she is walking on eggs thats how my Todays society is aimed at making guys like in this movie perfect betas they have muscles and shit but are now harm to.anyone
If your women is not afraid of u u are no bad boy she has to feel AS if she is walking on eggs thats how my exes described the relatuonship with me i remeber girls asking me for permission to ASK a stranger for direction or if they can go and drink a coffee with their girls
I remeber even helle Angels rocker asking me for Perkussion to shake my mothers hands lol
(06-08-2017, 01:36 PM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]THX guys i dont know if i am doing right i dont feel anything lately
Maybe i am being perceived as a nice guy now due to the healing, thats why they dont give me any attention
I looked at a girl today for 15 min not once she looked back normaly i would get heavy IOS from women,now its like i am the least attractive man on the world lol
If this is due to healing it proves that women dont want healed guys, i would say i care now much less about women than i used to but they dont care about me too lol
What We learn from it being healed and not caring about women doesnt get u pussy atleast it seems like this
It feels so unusal for me not to chase women, in the past i would spend all my free time chasing pussy i almost forget how it feels to be normal, its so easy to be passive regarding women if u dont chase them they cant reject u if u have no libido they have no power over u
I wonder what the autopilot is doing here
PS women are a waste of lifetime and energy right now i am not even sure if i want one, i dont need their love companionship or sex
I had over hundert women in my life and they didnt make me happy even a bit
I pity the guys who are in a relationship or marriage love is a lie men believe and women usw to get resources because they are too lazy to work for it
PS Volumen upped to 100 percent 7-8 loops us
I got this experience after AOS, AM and WM. Dramatic drop of libido and chasing/thinking of women. Jaded in life. At this point, it feels like a different lifetime.
Remember the roller coaster of emotions during the older AM runs? I think of the healing/clearing as a wheel, its a constant cycle; Sometimes you are on top of the world, sometimes rock bottom or half-way up or down. It's crazy.
(06-09-2017, 03:28 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]Todays society is aimed at making guys like in this movie perfect betas they have muscles and shit but are now harm to.anyone
If your women is not afraid of u u are no bad boy she has to feel AS if she is walking on eggs thats how my Todays society is aimed at making guys like in this movie perfect betas they have muscles and shit but are now harm to.anyone
If your women is not afraid of u u are no bad boy she has to feel AS if she is walking on eggs thats how my exes described the relatuonship with me i remeber girls asking me for permission to ASK a stranger for direction or if they can go and drink a coffee with their girls
Right but how do you make them afraid or like they're walking on eggshells? (PM me if it's too controversial)
(06-09-2017, 03:28 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]I remeber even helle Angels rocker asking me for Perkussion to shake my mothers hands lol
You mean "Hells Angels"? I thought they were only in Canada. Don't you live in Germany?
Hells Angels are also in Germany
(06-09-2017, 03:28 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]Todays society is aimed at making guys like in this movie perfect betas they have muscles and shit but are now harm to.anyone
If your women is not afraid of u u are no bad boy she has to feel AS if she is walking on eggs thats how my Todays society is aimed at making guys like in this movie perfect betas they have muscles and shit but are now harm to.anyone
If your women is not afraid of u u are no bad boy she has to feel AS if she is walking on eggs thats how my exes described the relatuonship with me i remeber girls asking me for permission to ASK a stranger for direction or if they can go and drink a coffee with their girls
I remeber even helle Angels rocker asking me for Perkussion to shake my mothers hands lol
I wouldn't go that far that women should be afraid of you, I think my friend has the best analogy for attracting women:
"be Tony Montana to the rest of the world, but be Casanova to her"
There are multiple studies that show women are more attracted to "bad boys" and even narcissists than they are "nice guys", most recent one I looked over:
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/art...691500210X
Quote:highlights
•Female desire for marriage may reduce attraction to the narcissistic personality.
•Mate sampling experience may reduce attraction to the narcissistic personality.
•Females desiring marriage were more attracted to the narcissistic male personality.
•More experienced females were more attracted to the narcissistic male personality.
•Narcissistic personality is attractive to females despite its negative qualities.
In both short term (one night stands) and long term (relationship/marriage) women have more attraction to a narcissist than a normal guy. Even American feminist icon Sheryl Sandberg advises girls to have fun wild times with the bad boys but don't marry them:
http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/772391-w...e-to-women
Quote:“When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.”
But with all that said it's hard to say what effect the healing is having,I don't think DMSI should be making us narcissists and assholes but some of those traits such as not giving a fuck, high confidence, assertiveness, etc are all good things. Maybe DMSI's healing is eliminating those traits that originate from a negative source (emotional pain) and once that's gone they'll come back from a good source (high self esteem).
U make then afraid by being totally unpredictable and punishing her for every little mistake, and hardly accept apoligies or better never make her regret her mistakes
I recommend the book 'Mickey Royals instructional guide to pimp game' i might reread it thought it helped me turning a feminist into a sub in the past
I was diagnosed with a narcistic personality disorder years ago so i have pretty good cards on this lol
(06-09-2017, 04:03 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: [ -> ]Hells Angels are also in Germany
Hells angels, like any self respecting criminal organization, are multinational. More territory = more money.
a good definition of bad boy
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Thanks Dzemoo.
Speaking of narcissism and such, when I was at the hospital the other day I got in an argument with one of the nurses (not the one I mentioned in my journals) I was firm in my beliefs and she eventually gave up, but definitely catered to me more.
Later on she tripped on my foot which was sticking out into the hall. I knee-jerkingly said "sorry" and she was like "no, don't be sorry! I wasn't looking where I was going"
All respect, catering, and interest from her ended after that however.
I made a mental note to never apologize ever and be a sore thumb with women. A pain in the ass.
(06-09-2017, 07:01 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]Later on she tripped on my foot which was sticking out into the hall. I knee-jerkingly said "sorry" and she was like "no, don't be sorry! I wasn't looking where I was going"
All respect, catering, and interest from her ended after that however.
Not the same situation but I had a girl losing interest in me completely after apologizing for something I did.
(06-09-2017, 07:38 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: [ -> ] (06-09-2017, 07:01 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]Later on she tripped on my foot which was sticking out into the hall. I knee-jerkingly said "sorry" and she was like "no, don't be sorry! I wasn't looking where I was going"
All respect, catering, and interest from her ended after that however.
Not the same situation but I had a girl losing interest in me completely after apologizing for something I did.
Yeah it's a cue for low-status/value as far as I can tell.
(06-09-2017, 07:43 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (06-09-2017, 07:38 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: [ -> ] (06-09-2017, 07:01 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]Later on she tripped on my foot which was sticking out into the hall. I knee-jerkingly said "sorry" and she was like "no, don't be sorry! I wasn't looking where I was going"
All respect, catering, and interest from her ended after that however.
Not the same situation but I had a girl losing interest in me completely after apologizing for something I did.
Yeah it's a cue for low-status/value as far as I can tell.
I guess it is about losing frame or dominance (or both) in her eyes. But whatever it is, it has no good effect.