06-06-2016, 04:28 AM
I don't want to make this a journal of one single subliminal. Because I have several that I plan to use over the course of the next year or two.
I am not an every day poster. I prefer weekly-ish. It's like watching a friend on a diet. If you see them every day, you'r likely to miss something. But once a week, and you'll notice the changes.
Situation: I am a 48 year old man. Married for 20 years on 01 April 2016, with two children and a wife I love dearly.
Even when you are content, life has a way of beating you down, after a time, you feel like a "whack-a-mole" that just wants to stop the game and get off this crazy ride.
Look around you... mass media perfected the science of supraliminal/subliminal influence many years ago. For those of you who have children, or are young enough to remember, Disney is notorious for portraying fathers as idiots, disobedient children as heroic, and women as hawt, brilliant, and in charge.
When I say "get off this crazy ride," I'm not referring to suicide, but the desire to stop competing in the proverbial rat race. It's time to make some changes. Engage in a self-improvement regimine, and strike out on my own.
My background: When I was young and single, I was what you PUA's called "a natural." This comes from an innate sense of self confidence, nurtured in my by two loving parents who sacrificed much to take care of me and my two younger sisters. It was not until years later, when I joined the Marine Corps that the importance of the fact that mom & dad loved each other (even liked each other most of the time ;-) ) really hit home.
I spent nine years in the Marine Corps Infantry. It was like home to me. I got to travel the world, see things that most people cannot even imagine, and make good close friends (lost a few too, but we accepted this when we signed that blank check). After that nine years, I decided that I was tired of six and seven month business trips away from my bride. it was time to come home and grow old with her.
On marriage, relationships, and women: Even if you don't subscribe to the theories of Paleo-Masculinity, it is axiomatic that women will test you. Here are things I have learned (this list is not static):
Perception is everything: Did you ever watch the movie "The Incredibles?" There is a scene in which the hero is running from the villain, who has just dropped a high explosive charge on him, and then sent a drone to do the bomb damage assessment.
As Mr. Incredible (the hero) is searching about for a place to hide, he sees an odd pattern cut into the opposite wall. He shifts his position slightly, and the message became clear.
This "shift in position" required to help you see things clearly... is necessary for oh so many truths that we must learn in life.
For some, it is life experience, for others it is simply a matter of looking at something from a different angle. Usually, the shift required depends upon the degree to which we have accepted, internalized, and invested in a particular world view.
Case in point, learning the truth about history, helped me let go of ideas that were harmful to me... In my case, it all started with a little book called "A Century of War" by John V. Denson (everyone should read this book... especially former military men ).
I would that you learn from my mistakes.
I am not an every day poster. I prefer weekly-ish. It's like watching a friend on a diet. If you see them every day, you'r likely to miss something. But once a week, and you'll notice the changes.
Situation: I am a 48 year old man. Married for 20 years on 01 April 2016, with two children and a wife I love dearly.
Even when you are content, life has a way of beating you down, after a time, you feel like a "whack-a-mole" that just wants to stop the game and get off this crazy ride.
Look around you... mass media perfected the science of supraliminal/subliminal influence many years ago. For those of you who have children, or are young enough to remember, Disney is notorious for portraying fathers as idiots, disobedient children as heroic, and women as hawt, brilliant, and in charge.
When I say "get off this crazy ride," I'm not referring to suicide, but the desire to stop competing in the proverbial rat race. It's time to make some changes. Engage in a self-improvement regimine, and strike out on my own.
My background: When I was young and single, I was what you PUA's called "a natural." This comes from an innate sense of self confidence, nurtured in my by two loving parents who sacrificed much to take care of me and my two younger sisters. It was not until years later, when I joined the Marine Corps that the importance of the fact that mom & dad loved each other (even liked each other most of the time ;-) ) really hit home.
I spent nine years in the Marine Corps Infantry. It was like home to me. I got to travel the world, see things that most people cannot even imagine, and make good close friends (lost a few too, but we accepted this when we signed that blank check). After that nine years, I decided that I was tired of six and seven month business trips away from my bride. it was time to come home and grow old with her.
On marriage, relationships, and women: Even if you don't subscribe to the theories of Paleo-Masculinity, it is axiomatic that women will test you. Here are things I have learned (this list is not static):
Perception is everything: Did you ever watch the movie "The Incredibles?" There is a scene in which the hero is running from the villain, who has just dropped a high explosive charge on him, and then sent a drone to do the bomb damage assessment.
As Mr. Incredible (the hero) is searching about for a place to hide, he sees an odd pattern cut into the opposite wall. He shifts his position slightly, and the message became clear.
This "shift in position" required to help you see things clearly... is necessary for oh so many truths that we must learn in life.
For some, it is life experience, for others it is simply a matter of looking at something from a different angle. Usually, the shift required depends upon the degree to which we have accepted, internalized, and invested in a particular world view.
Case in point, learning the truth about history, helped me let go of ideas that were harmful to me... In my case, it all started with a little book called "A Century of War" by John V. Denson (everyone should read this book... especially former military men ).
I would that you learn from my mistakes.
- There is no such thing as a "soulmate!" There are good fits, bad fits, good dates, bad dates, good mates, and bad mates. But NOWHERE does there exist "that one perfect someone for you."
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This is a crucial point that you MUST accept if you are to have any success at all with women.
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- Do NOT put a woman on a pedestal. I grew up in the American South. We (my family) are "verrah, verrah Southern." So this realization was as traumatic for me as learning the truth about history.
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- YOU (not her) are the "better half." Among the many lies of the de facto matriarchy, referring to women as 'our better half' is one of the most insidious and soul-killing lies out there. Research the term "solipsism" as it relates to human females.
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- If your woman asks you what you want, give a definitive answer, regardless of how small it seems DO NOT DEFER TO HER.
When your new wife/girlfriend says "what do you want to do about dinner?" Have a definitive answer! It sounds silly and stupid, but this is where it starts... Do NOT "play the gentleman" and defer to her, because (though she may claim it), that is NOT what she wants.
If you keep going down that road, you will end up an emasculated beta with no self-confidence, and no self-respect. Reject my advice here at your own risk.
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- YOU are "the boss" (not her) it pains me to hear men refer to their wives as "the boss." Why? Because women are [generally] incapable of leading or taking initiative.
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By way of example, see this Dutch version of "Survivor"
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- We have a saying here in the South: "If mamma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy." This is a lie. Not just a lie, but a dangerous lie at that.
Women are emotional creatures who's nature is to nurture. Putting her at the center will cause confusion and disappointment. Why? because it will make her happiness a moving target that you will forever be chasing. Don't believe me? Have a long talk with any female friend. She will tell you that your typical woman does not know what she wants. The statement should more accurately be rendered "If Daddy ain't happy, ain't nobody happy."
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- Nice guys really DO finish last.
It is an unfamiliar emotion to me. 