(02-02-2016, 02:32 PM)Nox Wrote: [ -> ]Blank faces and expressions are perfect for dry humor and playful sarcasm, which a lot of women love if used in a good way. A blank face, good joke and some mischief in the eyes really help things out when done properly. Dudes will also respect a sharp, dry wit.
Maybe try and work with the subs a bit in this regard. I haven't used AM but this could possibly be a major benefit if you use it right. Check out some older comedians who work well with dry humor and sarcasm and maybe get down with some puns and play on words
Hey bro,
Yeah I get what you are saying, but it's another story when you first experience it first hand.
Imagine you just feel very dense and heavy in the middle of a conversation. Any humorous attempts will not come out, and the only thing you realize is that your face keeps on getting tenser, straighter and more intimadating. You have no control to your vibe, making it in a different, perhaps relaxed way, all you have is density, heaviness, and tension. A slight laugh on your face would come out as trying hard, and your face will tell that exactly.
...
This is probably the instance I feel very common through my run of AM. It's awkward situation, it's violent psychological response to all men, and is extreme assertiveness. This will challenge most out there as they could not feel anything but intimidation. Some will respond by disregarding you, ommitting you, and ultimately try to ridicule you, fight you back in front of others.
Does that sound likely to anybody? This is how I felt.
Good thing is that I am not afraid to be in a tense situation. I know 100% I can fight back and defeat them if I wanted to, but the only thing I probably hate is the uncomfortable, tense feeling all the time in my body. I mean it's not always like this, it tends to get better the longer you run it, but the response is
never based on mutual respect, but some sort of "I intimidate you" frame.
Here's a good one:
Absorb AM7 before making suggestions for AM8.
(02-02-2016, 02:51 PM)Jakeb203 Wrote: [ -> ] (02-02-2016, 02:32 PM)Nox Wrote: [ -> ]Blank faces and expressions are perfect for dry humor and playful sarcasm, which a lot of women love if used in a good way. A blank face, good joke and some mischief in the eyes really help things out when done properly. Dudes will also respect a sharp, dry wit.
Maybe try and work with the subs a bit in this regard. I haven't used AM but this could possibly be a major benefit if you use it right. Check out some older comedians who work well with dry humor and sarcasm and maybe get down with some puns and play on words
Hey bro,
Yeah I get what you are saying, but it's another story when you first experience it first hand.
Imagine you just feel very dense and heavy in the middle of a conversation. Any humorous attempts will not come out, and the only thing you realize is that your face keeps on getting tenser, straighter and more intimadating. You have no control to your vibe, making it in a different, perhaps relaxed way, all you have is density, heaviness, and tension. A slight laugh on your face would come out as trying hard, and your face will tell that exactly.
...
This is probably the instance I feel very common through my run of AM. It's awkward situation, it's violent psychological response to all men, and is extreme assertiveness. This will challenge most out there as they could not feel anything but intimidation. Some will respond by disregarding you, ommitting you, and ultimately try to ridicule you, fight you back in front of others.
Does that sound likely to anybody? This is how I felt.
Good thing is that I am not afraid to be in a tense situation. I know 100% I can fight back and defeat them if I wanted to, but the only thing I probably hate is the uncomfortable, tense feeling all the time in my body. I mean it's not always like this, it tends to get better the longer you run it, but the response is never based on mutual respect, but some sort of "I intimidate you" frame.
That sounds intense. Haha I might have to try this just to experience it. Well, I hope it works out long term. Sounds like you'll end up either be seen as top dog or you'll be kicking some asses to get there.
(02-02-2016, 03:42 PM)Nox Wrote: [ -> ] (02-02-2016, 02:51 PM)Jakeb203 Wrote: [ -> ] (02-02-2016, 02:32 PM)Nox Wrote: [ -> ]Blank faces and expressions are perfect for dry humor and playful sarcasm, which a lot of women love if used in a good way. A blank face, good joke and some mischief in the eyes really help things out when done properly. Dudes will also respect a sharp, dry wit.
Maybe try and work with the subs a bit in this regard. I haven't used AM but this could possibly be a major benefit if you use it right. Check out some older comedians who work well with dry humor and sarcasm and maybe get down with some puns and play on words
Hey bro,
Yeah I get what you are saying, but it's another story when you first experience it first hand.
Imagine you just feel very dense and heavy in the middle of a conversation. Any humorous attempts will not come out, and the only thing you realize is that your face keeps on getting tenser, straighter and more intimadating. You have no control to your vibe, making it in a different, perhaps relaxed way, all you have is density, heaviness, and tension. A slight laugh on your face would come out as trying hard, and your face will tell that exactly.
...
This is probably the instance I feel very common through my run of AM. It's awkward situation, it's violent psychological response to all men, and is extreme assertiveness. This will challenge most out there as they could not feel anything but intimidation. Some will respond by disregarding you, ommitting you, and ultimately try to ridicule you, fight you back in front of others.
Does that sound likely to anybody? This is how I felt.
Good thing is that I am not afraid to be in a tense situation. I know 100% I can fight back and defeat them if I wanted to, but the only thing I probably hate is the uncomfortable, tense feeling all the time in my body. I mean it's not always like this, it tends to get better the longer you run it, but the response is never based on mutual respect, but some sort of "I intimidate you" frame.
That sounds intense. Haha I might have to try this just to experience it. Well, I hope it works out long term. Sounds like you'll end up either be seen as top dog or you'll be kicking some asses to get there.
Long way ahead of me lays the great destiny of becoming the true alpha male! (Just realized the new conditioning kicked in from stage 6)
(02-02-2016, 02:51 PM)Jakeb203 Wrote: [ -> ]Hey bro,
Yeah I get what you are saying, but it's another story when you first experience it first hand.
Imagine you just feel very dense and heavy in the middle of a conversation. Any humorous attempts will not come out, and the only thing you realize is that your face keeps on getting tenser, straighter and more intimadating. You have no control to your vibe, making it in a different, perhaps relaxed way, all you have is density, heaviness, and tension. A slight laugh on your face would come out as trying hard, and your face will tell that exactly.
Does that sound likely to anybody? This is how I felt.
Hey man, my 2 am6 runs have been like this when interacting with women, and some men i perceived cool/ i wanted to befriend them. It was an anxiety and a strong 'choking' feeling in my throat, which made my speaking skills (that for me are naturally shit) even worse.
In a sense am6 made me a bit more socially retarded than i was because it made me even more dry in conversations. I became more fearless to speak up and ask questions when i had them(in classroom), but when in conversation i became quite boring/too cool to mingle with people. My playfulness went away in all stages, except maybe some in stage 5-6.
Personally for me an alpha has to have good socializing skills. Nowadays alphas aren't the bigger/stronger/independent of the tribe but the ones that are socially dominant and are stronger because of alliances and social value. This aspect is completely absent from am6 i think.
(02-02-2016, 02:51 PM)Jakeb203 Wrote: [ -> ] (02-02-2016, 02:32 PM)Nox Wrote: [ -> ]Blank faces and expressions are perfect for dry humor and playful sarcasm, which a lot of women love if used in a good way. A blank face, good joke and some mischief in the eyes really help things out when done properly. Dudes will also respect a sharp, dry wit.
Maybe try and work with the subs a bit in this regard. I haven't used AM but this could possibly be a major benefit if you use it right. Check out some older comedians who work well with dry humor and sarcasm and maybe get down with some puns and play on words
Hey bro,
Yeah I get what you are saying, but it's another story when you first experience it first hand.
Imagine you just feel very dense and heavy in the middle of a conversation. Any humorous attempts will not come out, and the only thing you realize is that your face keeps on getting tenser, straighter and more intimadating. You have no control to your vibe, making it in a different, perhaps relaxed way, all you have is density, heaviness, and tension. A slight laugh on your face would come out as trying hard, and your face will tell that exactly.
...
This is probably the instance I feel very common through my run of AM. It's awkward situation, it's violent psychological response to all men, and is extreme assertiveness. This will challenge most out there as they could not feel anything but intimidation. Some will respond by disregarding you, ommitting you, and ultimately try to ridicule you, fight you back in front of others.
Does that sound likely to anybody? This is how I felt.
Good thing is that I am not afraid to be in a tense situation. I know 100% I can fight back and defeat them if I wanted to, but the only thing I probably hate is the uncomfortable, tense feeling all the time in my body. I mean it's not always like this, it tends to get better the longer you run it, but the response is never based on mutual respect, but some sort of "I intimidate you" frame.
That's exactly what mean!
I personally think it's a great foundation building sub, but if you were to enjoy life, connect with others and live to the fullest, AM6 will not provide. It is designed to lift you to the "no man's land" where you become the highest status person in YOUR world. It's a place where no one can be better than you, and for those who might be better than you in any aspect, you become tense with them. It even transfers to conflicts. The subconscious is trying to tell you that they are not better than you, but in reality they may be a few decades of experience ahead of you. You omit that regardless.
SO here comes the question: which subconscious statement will be most effective so that you claim alpha male status, while making the whole interaction more flowing and connecting when interact with elders/ business partners / authorities? The missing factor is CONNECTION. The kind of connection where you base your ground solidly, while making sure you have a great conversation that shows respect to other, instead of intimidating others / being intimidated.
A lot of times my body language becomes TOO intimidating I don't feel good socializing anymore. I feel like I want to fight people all the time. Makes me want to work anything alone forever. Any projects that require teamwork I have a hard time dealing with. But in the reality if you were to make progress at anything, you need to connect with people. And they need to be WIN-WIN, not just dominating others the whole time. Because of the disconnection factor you end up doing anything by yourself, or just give up all forms of social activities. The previous 2 run of AM taught me that socializing is about winning and losing, and most of the conversations involved great tensions. So I hope it will be fixed in the next run, making socializing and talking to others more enjoyable.
Also to SM, don't know because I haven't run it, but if you were to reach a sexually abundant life, it's not good that people perceive you to be intimidating the whole time. Friends of mine getting laid the whole time are all about taking actions on all opportunities. We are talking about taking phone numbers on any attractive girl you come across, and simply asking all of them out. I think the missing part of SM is the lack of actions... You become too good of a "flower" anyone will wanna get, but flowers do not get nutrition themselves. A very high status man will live his life, but will also find ways to make his sexual life fulfilling. What if you live in a small area where there aren't many girls available, or want to chase you? That's why finding ways to get sex is so important.
Anyways, off topic.
I dont think the problems discussed here will get better as shanon wants now to even completly dismiss social components and women at all in am7
Since running am6 poeple ask me if i have problems or if i am drunk, one girl told me yesterday 'a person like you can only be hated'
I know when my friend ran am5 he was a cool guy but on am6 i started to dislike him and my sister asked me whats wrong with him he looks like he has some serious problems that bother him
I wonder if it will even be worth my time to run am7 because like you guys said it nowadays alphas need other qualities than cave men but shanon keeps disregarding this completly only strengthening the core masculinity part as if it is the only key to success, how many masculine alpha guys are in prison?
I had girl say that I was psycho( I thought she was cool) and said I walked like a killer( I was feeling too lazy to walk).
I got fired from my job too for no reason, I feel I was genuinely disliked.
For me personally, I like AM v.6 right now, I like the result I become more relax and aware of my choices in life. This just a bit creepy because I feel emptiness and loneliness while using this subs. It's like everything I do, I do it for my self, f*ck with other's people opinion. It can be good, It can be no good. But, this maybe because it's my first time using AM v.6 anyway.
(02-03-2016, 10:36 PM)Darkness Wrote: [ -> ]I had girl say that I was psycho( I thought she was cool) and said I walked like a killer( I was feeling too lazy to walk).
I got fired from my job too for no reason, I feel I was genuinely disliked.
Thats what asked if someonw else experienced this but noone could confirm. It
I think it gets balanced more when you run socializing subs like BASE and WM. But for me the second run of AM after BASE is till rough from times as you give people the signal of connection but are still stand-off/cold/intimidating in some forms. They don't understand and will gain hatred. Not good.
(02-04-2016, 02:46 AM)Jakeb203 Wrote: [ -> ]I think it gets balanced more when you run socializing subs like BASE and WM. But for me the second run of AM after BASE is till rough from times as you give people the signal of connection but are still stand-off/cold/intimidating in some forms. They don't understand and will gain hatred. Not good.
Yes this is very confusing for both