CONSULTING HERE
Is there a 4G sub I can use so I can easily move on from and let go of this girl? Wishing her the best, but I always see her! Mixed negative emotions. Don't offer any other solution, except a good sub. Thank you guys!
(12-14-2015, 11:30 PM)alden Wrote: [ -> ]CONSULTING HERE
Is there a 4G sub I can use so I can easily move on from this girl? I always see her! Mixed negative emotions. Don't offer any other solution, except a good sub. Thank you guys!
Hi there Alden,
Yep, there sure is!
Go to the store, and look up "Let Go Of Past Relationships 4G".
Shannon built it for himself awhile back after a terrible breakup. It worked amazingly. So he decided to sell it!
That should sort you out. It's pretty highly regarded.
(12-14-2015, 11:33 PM)CatMan Wrote: [ -> ]Go to the store, and look up "Let Go Of Past Relationships 4G".
Shannon built it for himself awhile back after a terrible breakup. It worked amazingly. So he decided to sell it!
That should sort you out. It's pretty highly regarded.
I'll check the script, I worry though 'cus we didn't have a relationship. It's just that I fell so madly obsessed with her though she's not really a high value woman, she's way below the scale in terms of confidence, smart and tastes.
I'm also considering OGSF 'cus the recurring feeling is more on jealousy.
Thanks!
Day 24
I've been struggling to break the oneitis, asked for sub advice from you guys. Eventually, I bought LGOPR (thanks CatMan)—the script suits my situation perfectly except that I didn't have a mutual romantic relationship with the woman, but all the shits of breakup is in this oneitis that I've been experiencing. I will try it for a week, if nothing happens, I'll ask for refund and will just do the EPRHA. If still none of these works, I will buy OAA (which has the OGSF script) and try it with DAOS. If it's still there, finally, I will do AM5.
I also started doing Geodude's Tapping Technique (thanks yeah!) whenever I suddenly relive the mixed feelings I had for the girl. It makes me think I'm so weird though—though none of these things are normal/mainstream anyway.
Day 25-26
I've not approached a girl for a while. I've been busy dealing with my oneitis through these various approaches. Oh God, please help, give some mercy... It's not easy.
I might do AM5 sooner...
Day 26 (continuation)
I don't like this. I saw my oneitis dancing in an outfit and dance moves that really turns me on. Suddenly, somebody teased her about the jerk guy—the one she chose over me—who broke up with her. I felt cold. Now, in my bed, I could imagine her having sex with some guy. (She and her ex had slept together a few times, someone told me.) I don't know if this imagined thought is caused by DAOS, but I feel jealous. I'm doing affirmations to accept that the girl might not really be the right one for me.
Some part of me is asking why I couldn't get the kind of girl I want. While others could get them easily, and leave them as fast.
maybe you should start looking into what the jerk is doing...
"I am the prize", "whoever cares the least,holds the power in any relationship" - Cory Skyy. You need to listen again and again until you get it. Right now you don't sound like an ambassador of the magnetic mindset
Forget about her, you can't make a girl attracted to you, attraction isn't a choice. It's not about her, it's about you. Figure out what you want to do with your life and then express that. Force a lot of women into your life, it's no coincidence I have a female stylist, get my groceries where young women work, go to the same bar where there's like 70% women every time. Flirt with all women, but never pursue, that's the trick.
Day 27-39
Inspired by CatMan, I've not masturbated since my last post (that's 14 days), even when I had very vivid visualizations making love with the woman I was obsessed with, but tonight, a day after I talked to Art—a fellow daygamer who occasionally masturbates and thinks it's alright—I fapped using a different erotic fantasy. Bad influence!
I've been laxed with my Cory Skyy affirmations for 3 days. I've not gone to the gym for more than a week. I've focused, however, on the Law of Attraction, and now, I'm more a positive person.
I gamed twice since my last post—once in a bar and another in a big mall. Both showed improving performance. I even teased a cute 18 year old to pay for our snacks, she did, though there's not much attraction from her
I realized that gaming, seeing lots of beautiful faces, hearing higher hot girl standards from friends, improve my abundance mentality.
Now I have new friends, and we call ourselves badass
(We're all good guys though.)
I'm flattered, but you had a relapse.
Get back to it. Don't stop this time. I stumbled too, while learning what my 3 addiction triggers were. Now that I've identified and nullified them, nofap is getting EASY. And I used to be a chronic addict, twice a day or more minimum.
How is LGOPR going?
I don't see any effect directly from LGOPR. I guess it's the improvement in my abundance mentality, caused by more and better sarging and practicing the Law of Attraction, that makes me less needy now. Moreover, I'm currently far from that girl, so I guess that helps too. I might begin to encounter her more often again next week. I just don't know how my emotions would react to that.
Visualizing is important in practicing the Law of Attraction. So if I'm going to make it part of my reality to be that someone who gets laid often, I'm going to visualize having sex with some women. My imagination is quite vivid, and such visualizations always turn me on. I read a suggestion to try visualizing pleasuring some woman without getting horny—like the attitude of a doctor treating a naked woman. I currently don't know how to do that. So that adds to the pressure to jack off. Yeah, I had a relapse haha. I'm getting back to it. Thanks!
(Let me also tell you that I shared the negative effects of masturbation and porn addictions to some friend of mine who is 25 year old, and he eventually realized that he has to stop it altogether.)
I started reading John Alexander's book on alpha male. In an instant, my oneitis receded. The dark side of which is I see every girl now as a closet slut. There are no more "angels", no more "princesses". Women are made to want to be fucked, and men are born to fuck them all. If ever these thoughts came across my mind, say 2 days ago, I might have gone to the mountain and do mental cleansing, because I wasn't comfortable thinking about these things. I guess, I've been so angry for quite some time now, and AM6 Stage 1 brought that to the surface.
A 30-something married coworker attempted to kiss me on my cheek—she's the one who backed away though. A sweet teenager smiled at me in a charming way—I did not return the smile though. I approached a new hiredgun in the gym, no interesting reaction, they're busy.
Now, before I sleep, I feel regret. I was more heartbroken 7 years ago than I've been lately, and yet I only started learning about women and attraction these past few months. So, I've been a nice guy for such a long long time! If only I'd known what I know now, I might have laid at least 3 interesting girls within that period, because I had all the chance and they were attracted to me. But I was a dork, so nothing happened till other guys got them.
So far, that's how my AM6 Stage 1 has been going.
If you want to become more angry read no more mr nice guy or the rationale male
(01-04-2016, 07:48 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]If you want to become more angry read no more mr nice guy or the rationale male
I don't particularly want to be more angry. Before, when I'm this angry, I go helpless. But now, it feels I can easily handle this anger. It's the kind of anger that has no element of fear. I already read No More Mr. Nice Guy. I might check The Rationale Male later...
Can somebody interpret this dream for me?
I am in an action film-sort of situation. We're inside a building. There's the bad guy who shoots his enemies with his gun. I'm one of his enemies, and he successfully shot me on my forehead. I'm dead.
Another scene. I'm about to take revenge against the bad guy, who is quite successful and a little older now. I'm a sniper here, and yeah, I'm alive again. I was hiding in a building beside the building where the bad guy is. I have my gun. Suddenly, the bad guy who is a bit older now appeared with some other guys (females, I guess) near where I am hiding. He's sort of more mature and smiling, and then, I shot him.
Last scene. I suddenly saw a bubble of cloud hanging low above my former school's car path. I run to it and reached it with my hands. It felt like detergent bubbles.
Wow, while writing this, I suddenly could interpret this dream on my own.
It seems I'm wanting to take revenge against the woman whose rejection of me caused this tremendous change in my life. The bad guy shooting me, among other guys in the scene, meant she's able to make me—among other beta males—fall in love with her. I shooting her later means I'm seeing that I'd be able to make her fall in love with me soon after, and it seems she's already wiser then.
I running and reaching for the bubble of cloud is almost paradise-like, and yes, I felt it. It was a good dream.
So, that's how my subconscious communicates my deepest thoughts to me. And writing it down enables me to interpret it well.