Dear Shannon,
TL;DR :
Please create a 3g/4g sub (something simple [does not take alot of time to make 1-3hrs] but effective) that will help rediscover a man's desire to approach women he finds attractive.
Long story:
I was in the mall today, doing some work on the Daygame Blueprint by Andy/Yad. I was writing down the things I would say to women that I was seeing there at the mall (assumptions).
Deep down I could feel a part of me (the part of me that is a man), would not hesitate to approach a woman that he finds to be attractive.
I find that the AM6 posts that I read talk about alot of men not approaching. Their simple excuse is that their "standards/expectations are higher." I find this excuse to be unnerving. As true men, we should have a desire to approach the women we find attractive.
My definition of attractive is "women who I could see fking if I was naked with her."
That being said, when I was in the mall today, I saw many that I WANTED to approach, but had no desire in me to do so. It was like I was more interested to watch her walk by then to go up and meet her.
You can't disqualify a woman as a potential mate if you haven't at-least said "hello."
Shannon, I would like you to make a 3g (is fine) or a 4g sub and if you really want to a 5g. I don't know how long a 3g sub takes to make but I am interested in paying you hourly on it, even though I think other members here would benefit from it.
How long would it take something like this to make?
Something I also experienced. When I was approaching, I had no anxiety, but there was no big desire to approach. It's not that the attractiveness was not enough. It was not guilt, shame or fear that was holding me back (I think).
There is an overcome approach anxiety 4G at subliminal shop you can purchase for 23.41 something like that.
(05-30-2015, 04:40 AM)Womanizer Wrote: [ -> ]There is an overcome approach anxiety 4G at subliminal shop you can purchase for 23.41 something like that.
While I understand that most people say this. I think this is a common misconception. You see, you can undo approach anxiety by taking Theanine (a nootropic).
I want anxiety there you see. Large reward the bigger the risk. Your brain thinks that approach anxiety is a risk to your life... Ex: You get a huge endorphin rush after you make that first approach and your brain goes "oh Im not dead..."
I also believe that trying to make AA go away does no good on your part. I want the anxiety there so I can defeat it!!
Also I think that Approach Anxiety helps to tell yourself that "this girl is attractive- otherwise I wouldn't have any real anxiety."
That is why I think that this subliminal (along with messages such as "it feels natural to approach" "The IDGAF mentality" "I accept rejection with a smile" "you smile when you approach" "you have good body language when you approach" "you are dominant in your approach" "Anxiety tells me that she is worth my time"- with some other good mindsets) would be a REALLY valuable subliminal.
As I said, I think AA is an important indicator that the girl your looking at is worth your time. All I want is a sub that tells me if I see someone I like that I should "shit or get off the pot" -so to speak, because the likely-hood of you seeing her again (if you don't approach) is unlikely. Life is short guys.
I can plead all I want to try to get it made, but I strongly think that if it was created that MOST men here would use it.
Im not asking for anything extreme here. Maybe something that can be used with AM6 if possible or other 6 stage subs.
Oh and for benefit for women- gender neutral please
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Hahaha that article was an april fools joke by Krauser!
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Well havent tried it... as I said I dont care about the AA. Could try the Theanine.
"I now feel entitled to approach and attract women I find attractive"
I think that's really all that needs to be said in the program. That line would change lives. I like your idea, approach anxiety isn't really the problem, I see it as more of an entitlement issue, and maybe a deserving issue too.
I can't get myself to approach strangers sober either, and approach anxiety is not the issue.
As much as I agree that approach anxiety isn't the problem, neither is entitlement (at least for me). I've altogether stopped approaching because it seems absolutely pointless.
Perhaps a sub that ingrains the reality that pick up and approaching women is a skill. A sub that allows you to learn and be ok with learning. An endurance-based sub, rather than a sub that you'll expect will solve your problems, but help you work with them.
That's what I think I'd like to see.
(05-30-2015, 06:25 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: [ -> ] (05-30-2015, 10:49 AM)LeoistheSun Wrote: [ -> ]Oh and for benefit for women- gender neutral please
In the United State of America. Women expect the man to approach. I doubt a woman would purchase this title if it were gender neutral. Women get approached all day long for her to even need to purchase this title.
As for approach... is the goal to get the phone number? An instant date? Same day/night lay?
Eventually, you will meet the one and want to be with just her. Would it be wise to continue approaching women if you are in a relationship?
If you have an IDGAF mentality about approaching you might end a fantastic relationship because you can't stop approaching.
You get a desire to approach. It doesn't make you approach. Besides I know some men that are Monogamous but they still approach- as in approaching then compliment, then bail and say have a nice day. I keeps their mind sharp and it keeps them being in the moment and dominant. The feeling you get after you have conquered your fear- multiple times is a great feeling.
Women do want to approach, I know plenty that feel men "these days" are wusses beta males and they would rather approach people they find attractive instead of waiting for it or not. Besides its refreshing to be a man and to be approached by a woman. Some women DO want to approach.
I can agree with you sarge. I dont expect it to be a cure. You know that. As it is I am experimenting with an affirmation for it and a visualization. Approaching should be its own reinforcement if done correctly. If your a sleazeball about it and get rejected everytime I could see it being very difficult... in fact why continue.
There is a right-way and a wrong way to approach a woman. For this Sub I think its mostly for DIRECT approaches.
(05-30-2015, 10:36 PM)LeoistheSun Wrote: [ -> ]I can agree with you sarge. I dont expect it to be a cure. You know that. As it is I am experimenting with an affirmation for it and a visualization. Approaching should be its own reinforcement if done correctly. If your a sleazeball about it and get rejected everytime I could see it being very difficult... in fact why continue.
There is a right-way and a wrong way to approach a woman. For this Sub I think its mostly for DIRECT approaches.
Yes I know that.
As for me, I do not believe I'm a sleazeball, but I DO keep getting rejected so yes, why continue?
I would love a sub to teach the "right way" to approach a woman.
(05-31-2015, 04:48 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: [ -> ]As you know there is a whole community of "pick up artists" that teach this stuff and they have it down to a science.
When you approach. Are you smiling? Keeping eye contact? Do you make physical contact... shake her hand, touch her someplace NEUTRAL like her shoulder? Have something relevant to talk about?... if she is interested.
Do you know NLP and apply it? People use NLP unconsciously with disastrous results. I deliberately use NLP on both men and women for the results I intend. NLP is something that people do naturally... we are born doing it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-lingu...rogramming
Yes I know. The jury is still out on whether or not these guys achieve what they do or not. I only really believe RSD Tyler & Julien. As well as Chris from GLL.
And yes, I do lots of touching. Smiling isn't really my thing/whenever I smile, I creep people out lol.
Women compliment me on my approach or say I made their day etc, but only got one number in about 60+ approaches. That girl I held hands with for like 25 mins, and kissed her on the neck before I left. This was in the afternoon, in a busy walmart lol.
Yeah I suppose. I'm just not doing it right now because I got discouraged and plus, I need to get my sales going before I can risk bad rejected feelings again. Once I make a sale this week, I'll start approaching again.
If things go REALLY well, I'll start a youtube channel for you guys. But I need some money first for equipment like hidden camera/microphone obviously.
I'll gladly tape it all: meet to lay and beyond (within the confines of legality of course). So you can all watch my journey, and pay me for it of course. :angel:
I think that most people who video tape got something to prove- which is why I dont look at youtube for approach stuff. - not saying you got something to prove.
Also, sometimes we need to get our lives in shape before we can really exclude what women find attractive. Some men can have no job no car no nothing and still attract- but its rare... and weird.
(05-31-2015, 10:18 PM)LeoistheSun Wrote: [ -> ]I think that most people who video tape got something to prove- which is why I dont look at youtube for approach stuff. - not saying you got something to prove.
Also, sometimes we need to get our lives in shape before we can really exclude what women find attractive. Some men can have no job no car no nothing and still attract- but its rare... and weird.
Meh, I just think approaching is fun, and why not make money doing what is fun? Next up: pornstar! lol
But yeah, even if I DO have something to prove, who gives a f*ck? So long as I'm achieving my goals in life, I couldn't care less how insecure, manipulative, evil, wrong, bad, "goody two-shoes" or whatever. At the end of the day, I want to live my life how I want to live it, and that includes making videos of myself approaching and f*cking girls at random mothafuckaaaa!