Subliminal Talk

Hello all. I am lovelife 25 Years Old, I m living in a small town in france near Paris. I have used AM 6 with subtle change like, more confidence, better self esteem, better body language but nothing extraordinary.

I didn't seen any interest from girls, no EC at all during the last 3 stages of AM 6, and this lack of result was very frustrating for me. The reason I began AM 6 was to be able to fix my dating life. But now that I can use SM 3 I have decided to use it back to back until I can see some differencies in my dating life.

In all my life I only had 7 girls ! And the last 2 years I had nothing in particular....
THe older I am the less I have !

So I am 28 day in stage 1 and I can feel and see some change within me :

- Carefree , I am speaking my mind, and care less of what other people things of me -75%
- Increase of confidence , result of being carefree I can have this feeling of being stronger + 25%
- Fearless , in the first 20 days of stage 1 I had a lot of stress , and anger , and stress, and anger. Is like I was in fury of being this shy guy who can't even look women in theirs eyes. This past 5 or 6 days I am empty and can look at their ass and in their eyes with desire, and just with a little shame. If I am not updating my journal it will be because some gangsta group had killed me, I am more aggressive with this type of guys and don't fear at all of them. :@
- Happy, don't know why the last 10 days I am walking and sometime just smile or laughing at some fun things in my head.
- I have some EC , not too much, but I am not invisible anymore it is great ! Before it was like nobody was looking at me, I was just here and people just can't notice me.
- I am looking at the mirror and... who is this fucking handsome guy ? lol No for real , sometimes I am looking at myself and can't associate the man in the mirror with me ! Hope I will not develop double personalities and start killing some birds in the forest.
- Girls seems to laugh at my joke even if is not fun lol. Is like I have this good vibe all around me who change the mood everywhere I am going.

So great result for now I am happy for the result I am getting.

(10-21-2014, 06:04 AM)Lovelife Wrote: [ -> ]- Girls seems to laugh at my joke even if is not fun lol.

I would interpret this as a sign of attraction.

Hey Lovelife,

Good for you for taking SM3; I'm certain either of the dating subliminals would also bring many benefits.

Remember that Alpha Male is designed to help you focus on YOU, and on building YOURSELF up, not necessarily about getting relationships with women. The sales page for AM6 does mention women, and that could give you the wrong idea, but the subliminal is designed to build a solid foundation, so that if you want to figure out your dating life afterwards, you'd be able to do it without making mistakes that immature boys do, like losing everything in the pursuit of women, or not having proper boundaries or not being able to manage your time.

Resistance is simply a sign that you're improving faster than your subconscious is used to; it doesn't like the fact that it's changing and will try to keep the old beliefs alive by whatever means. This means that you could become depressed, or angry or bitter. Resistance goes away, but depending on how much you need to change your beliefs to reach your goals, you may have several resistances.

I would suggest you look into some modalities to deal with this resistance; I use both PSTEC and Faster EFT, which offer free content to help you get started. These basically cut your resistance so that you can let the subliminals work their magic!

There's a thread here: http://subliminal-talk.com/Thread-The-Tapping-Thread

Best of luck to you!

(10-21-2014, 06:13 AM)sebastian Wrote: [ -> ]

(10-21-2014, 06:04 AM)Lovelife Wrote: [ -> ]- Girls seems to laugh at my joke even if is not fun lol.

I would interpret this as a sign of attraction.

Or just being polite.

Yeah there a lot of possibilities why they are laughing , but I don't thinks they are laughing to be polite with me, when I said "joke that it is not fun" I am referring to casual conversation , I am not even trying to be funny so they don't have to laugh to be polite with me.
Maybe attraction ? Or just because I am being cooler ? Can't know for the moment I don't have enough interaction.

I forget to mention that when I see a cute girl I want so much to go to her and talk with her ! maybe OAA who's working ? But I have this 10% or 20% in my head that is saying : " what to do ? what to say ? " and I just look at her and pass... lol I am starting to have this inner confidence to go and talk with girls, I thinks that in 3 or 4 weeks I will just say to myself " fuck just go and don't thinks live is short" =)

Thanks DanAmerson for the links I will looks at it !

(10-21-2014, 11:07 AM)Lovelife Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah there a lot of possibilities why they are laughing , but I don't thinks they are laughing to be polite with me, when I said "joke that it is not fun" I am referring to casual conversation , I am not even trying to be funny so they don't have to laugh to be polite with me.

Happens to me too, it's definitely a good sign, look forward to reading your progress.

Good luck.. sounds like good results so far.

Laughing at stuff that isn't funny is definately a sign of attraction.. you have too many limiting beliefs Ricardo. She doesn't have to laugh if it isn't funny to just be polite as you say.

-Ben

Day 32 Of Stage 1

I will record the end of this stage so at the end of sex manget 3 I will maybe notice some change.

- I am feeling more confident 6/10
- Carefree 7/10
- Sociable 7 / 10
- Attractive 7 10
- Fun 8 / 10
- Beautiful 6,5 / 10
- Great 7 / 10
- Sexy ? ( I even don't know what is to feel sexy !! what is the feeling ? Maybe I am already feeling it ? Or not at all ! )

I slow down my urge to watch porn. I have more eyecontact but the cutest girls seems to ignore me. Today I had this one guys at the grocery store who wanted to talk with me. I had to cut the conversation because he didn't wanted it to end. First time in my life that random people tried to talk like that with me. Maybe my value as increased .... And I have more people asking me for direction or things in one month than in my entire life. Girls seems to enjoy conversation with me now. I used to be the one that girls didn't talk a lot to. Friends and family is messaging me a lot too.

So at the end I am no longer this invisible man that was ignored by everyone, family, and friends. I am feeling that I have more presence now, I have more value and people can see it.

I will be starting stage 2 tomorow and I hope this will increase the effect of stage 1 !

(10-21-2014, 04:13 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Good luck.. sounds like good results so far.

Laughing at stuff that isn't funny is definately a sign of attraction.. you have too many limiting beliefs Ricardo. She doesn't have to laugh if it isn't funny to just be polite as you say.

-Ben

Just because you don't like the idea that it's out of politeness doesn't mean it isn't so. Either she's laughing as you do when you find something hilarious or you get the ha ha nervous not laugh, but just trying to make the speaker feel better. It doesn't necessarily mean they are attracted as I've laughed at peoples 'jokes' or banter in a social setting just to keep the atmosphere lively but also thinking what a w*****r that person is.

Of course I don't know the exact circumstances of LL's encounter so in his case I may be wrong.

(10-24-2014, 09:44 AM)Ricardo Wrote: [ -> ]

(10-21-2014, 04:13 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Good luck.. sounds like good results so far.

Laughing at stuff that isn't funny is definately a sign of attraction.. you have too many limiting beliefs Ricardo. She doesn't have to laugh if it isn't funny to just be polite as you say.

-Ben

Just because you don't like the idea that it's out of politeness doesn't mean it isn't so. Either she's laughing as you do when you find something hilarious or you get the ha ha nervous not laugh, but just trying to make the speaker feel better. It doesn't necessarily mean they are attracted as I've laughed at peoples 'jokes' or banter in a social setting just to keep the atmosphere lively but also thinking what a w*****r that person is.

Of course I don't know the exact circumstances of LL's encounter so in his case I may be wrong.

Well that may be true, and women are nothing if not social creatures, yet, when a woman busts her gut at something I said that could in no way be considered a joke or even humorous it means at the very least she feels safe to laugh at something that SHE finds funny, thus, you are, at the very least, providing an atmosphere for her to be herself.

You are full of limiting beliefs Ricardo and trying to project them on everybody else.

Ask yourself what serves you more.. thinking that girls are just being polite, or believing that they are attracted to you?

-Ben

(10-24-2014, 03:04 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]You are full of limiting beliefs Ricardo and trying to project them on everybody else.

Ask yourself what serves you more.. thinking that girls are just being polite, or believing that they are attracted to you?

-Ben

I'm not trying to put my beliefs onto anyone but just to remind people there are two sides to every coin.

You seem to be the one with limiting beliefs for refusing to acknowledge it

Stage 3 day 1

Stage 2 was very strange , I was too much serious, very serious and cold with everyone. But I felt like I was myself, didn't need to smile all the time while talking with people, I was just me, I was here unaffected by everything. But it didn't change the way people interact with me. I am the center of almost 80% of the time in every group, things that never happened to me I was this guy who was outside of the circle and who was trying to enter and talk to everyone. Now I don't mind but people keep gravitate around me.

I had less eyes contact from women and men but still have some, I felt that this stage was a lot focused on my neediness and my urge to go out and met women. And on my libido too, I didn't know why but I have this urge to do a lot of training and have that sexy body that I had when i was 19. After I had started a lot of bodybuilding 2 week later every morning my penis was happy when i was waking up. My libido had come back now even if I didn't felt that I had lost it. It was like my unconscious mind was telling me to increase my level of testosterone in my blood. It is great I am feeling like i am 18 again ahah my penis is happy all the time now !!

So this last week I have approached 7 women and had 4 numbers, it is amazing ! Even if a girl is saying me no I am continuing to push for her number because I can see in her body language that she find me very very attractive and she is just saying no for 2 or 3 times to not be seen has a slut who's giving number to everyone !
It is so easy to approach girls, I have anxiety but is like only 10% and I am feeling very proud of me every time I can crush this anxiety inside me so I don't mind if anxiety is not at 0%.

When I am seeing a girl I like I have this urge to go and meet her, it is like if I am not trying I will regret it for the rest of my life. But even if I am not approaching I just forget the girl 30 seconds later lol. I am not putting myself down because I didn't open her, it is great.

Now stage 3, and I am looking forward to it.

Stage 3 Day 7

This subliminal seems to work !!! It is amazing.
I met one of my ex yesterday from 3 years ago, she asked me my number and I didn't want to. I said to her give me yours and I will text you back. She seemed disappointed believing that I will not text her.
So I texted her this morning and we had planned to have 1 all night of crazy sex the 16 december !

Another girl that I met in the street last week seems to be very interested into me, I will met her today.

I had sex with one of my ex that I texted last week ( yeah it seems that I want sex so much that I had texted 2 ex of mine lol), it was fucking hot. She was crazy as hell in the bed with me, I was exciting her so much that I couldn't believe it. It seems that she is wanting a relationship with me again.

And tomorow night i will meet an other girl that I met in the street last weekend too. She seems very cute.

So I am in the beginning of stage 3 and it seems the attraction things is working and my motivation to get girls too. All this 4 girls is minimum a 7 on a scale of 10. they are very cute and the girls I am meeting today is a 9, very hot and sexy and fun on the telephone.