Subliminal Talk

I started Alpha Male 6 on Friday! Should be an exciting journey.

Since starting AM6 I decided to sit down and figure out my goals, values and life mission.

My mission: to positively change lots of people's lives, make the world a better place and add as much value as possible to others. To live life to the fullest. To radiate love, joy and peace.

I'll use networth as a convenient metric for how much value I've contributed to the world. As my username suggests, my goal is to get to $1 billion networth by providing a ton of value to the world.

My plan with Shannon's programs:

My focus is on financial success rather than success with women, but because women are so beguilingly attractive it's very easy to lose lots of money getting involved with one - so I will probably do Sex Magnet or Women Magnet after AM6 to help handle that area of life and ensure I don't get played by a woman. Of course, "You lose money chasing women, you don't lose women chasing money."

Later on I hope to get into Become a Multi-Millionaire to help reach the next level of success.

Recent action steps and goals
- have been doing No Fap since Thursday.
Long-term goal: never watch porn again. Transmute sexual energy into productivity.
Short-term goal: 90 days no porn / no fap.

- joined a gym.
Long-term goal: by summer 2015 reach 1.5x bodyweight benchpress, 2x bodyweight squat, 2.5x bodyweight deadlift, 15 pull ups & chin ups, 50 press ups, run 5k in sub 30 minutes
Short-term goal: get six pack by this summer.

- joined Toastmasters; have a speech coming up
Short-term goal: give three public speeches by this summer
Long-term goal: by the age of 30, give dozens of well-received, confident public speeches. By the age of 40, give 100+ public speeches, with dozens speeches to audiences of 100+ and at east one to an audience of 1000+.

- started my own company (pre-AM6)
Short-term goal: hit six-figures worth of sales by July 2014
Medium-term goal: reach $1 million total sales in 2015, then automate as much as possible so I can start at a top business school in 2016
Long-term goal: learn a ton about business, sales & marketing; build up and sell lots of companies; add a huge amount of value to the world; become a millionaire in my twenties, multimillionaire in my thirties, worth $10+ million by 40, $100+ million by 50, and be a billionaire by 60. Use the second half of my life to give back with philanthropy.

Additional goal: be reproductively successful
Medium-term goal: within ten years find a sweet, beautiful, intelligent, feminine, supportive woman to help me in my mission. Get married after suitably protecting my assets.
Long-term goal: have 4+ happy, successful, confident children, educated at the top private schools and then HYPMS/Oxbridge, who each get married and continue extending the Billionaire family with multiple children.
Longest-term goal: to be surrounded on my deathbed aged 100+ by a large, loving, happy, virtuous, successful family; to be satisfied and content by a positive life well-lived, having improved the lives of millions of people.

I'll update this thread occasionally but I'm quite busy so it won't be daily.

Habits to Implement
- no porn, no fap
- gym five times a week
- eat according to the paleo diet
- every morning: meditate for ten minutes, do the five Tibetan rites, review my goals
- read for at least two hours a day; at least one book a week
- minimize time-wasting on the Internet
- write the next day's action plan before going to bed at night, giving deadlines for when each of the top six most important things are to be completed
- use pomodoro app on my phone to work in 25 minute chunks.
- consistently go to bed by 10 pm and wake up at 6 am. Exceptions occasionally made for social reasons.
- consistently work on the key aspects of my business; value generation, marketing, sales, finance. Always be closing!
- listen to Alpha Male 6 between 8-21 hours a day!
- I've just bought a large year calendar that I've stuck next to my bed. I will draw cross each day I satisfactorily meet my habits, to create a chain of crosses to motivate me and keep me going!

The last couple of days I've felt like an absolute beast. I have a strong urge to conquer and dominate, and when I'm alone in my bedroom I occasionally look in the mirror and roar like a lion. Either AM6 works very quickly or it's down to NoFap raising my testosterone. AM6 is probably helping with the NoFap though.

Looking forward to the changes in the weeks and months to come!

Edit: Have now changed my Avatar to a roaring lion.

Good luck with AM6 man. We have alot of the same goals, except for the having children one. It will be interesting to see how you go with the program.

Toastmasters is a great place to help with confidence and communication, I just joined again 2 weeks ago. Last time I did it several years ago it helped my confidence and speaking alot.. and it's pretty fun.

-Ben

(04-20-2014, 10:48 AM)Billionaire Wrote: [ -> ]Long-term goal: by summer 2015 reach 1.5x bodyweight benchpress, 2x bodyweight squat, 2.5x bodyweight deadlift, 15 pull ups & chin ups, 50 press ups, run 5k in sub 30 minutes
Short-term goal: get six pack by this summer.

That deadlift target sounds insane! Best of luck with it

(04-21-2014, 09:35 AM)ohmygee Wrote: [ -> ]I logged in just to say, you're one of the very few that actually get it. I've skimmed a few journals here and there, >90% are filled with mental masturbation and useless bs.

I do everything you do (minus toastmasters).

Keep down this path. A solid career and a good body will get you a ton of pussy. Thats why pussy should never be the focus.

I have both but yet am not getting any pussy lol.
I agree with what you say but I have been shy when it comes to women so that's why I haven't had results. You need the internal attributes like confidence, self validation and outcome independence etc... as well.
I have friends who make half the money I do and don't have nearly a good physique as me but get much more pussy.

(04-21-2014, 09:35 AM)ohmygee Wrote: [ -> ]I logged in just to say, you're one of the very few that actually get it. I've skimmed a few journals here and there, >90% are filled with mental masturbation and useless bs.

I do everything you do (minus toastmasters).

Keep down this path. A solid career and a good body will get you a ton of pussy. Thats why pussy should never be the focus.

This is the most unhelpful post I've read in a while.

ohmygee,there are rules in this forum and one of them is being respectful to others.

Thanks guys!

ohmygee - yeah I've finally realized that women are of secondary importance to your mission and purpose. Many males these days are boys who pursue women, rather than men who pursue a purpose: to build, create, invent, design, explore or achieve.

Benjamin - yeah Toastmasters is great. I used to be terrified of public speaking but I just gave a great speech and did table topics - for the first time in my life I enjoyed being in front of people as the center of attention.

swisston - yeah it is a bit hardcore. I just found the weightlifting standards per weight class: http://www.exrx.net/Testing/WeightLiftin...ndards.htm
For my current weight (~180 pounds) the benchpress and squat targets are at the upper levels of intermediate, while the deadlift target is into the advanced. However I currently don't have a training partner at the gym I've joined, so can push myself harder with the deadlift whereas especially the bench press will take time to improve without a spotter.

Results so far
- managed to last nearly a week of NoFap / NoPorn. My balls want to explode. I'm constantly horny. The horniness led to me contacting a couple of single models I know. One of them has agreed to go on a date with me. She will cook for me and then I will take her ballroom dancing where I will lead her like a boss. I look forward to manhandling her around the dancefloor and dominating her later in the bedroom. More importantly she has some useful contacts which may help with my business. :angel:
- made some progress with the business
- hit PBs in the gym
- gave a confident, very well-received speech at Toastmasters
- I'm becoming more confident, more assertive, and more dominant

Hey Billionaire. To start off, awesome avi! It's great to see such positive goals you have set for yourself and good luck on your journey. I'm sure the masterpiece AM6 is will satisfy much of what you set out to do. I'll be looking forward to see your updates in regards to your success. We're starting a movement of super powered Alpha's changing the world into a better place.

Thanks

Fonzy

Quick update from a couple of months in..

Leadership:
- I was elected chairman of a large organisation I'm part of (I wasn't planning on this at all, but threw my hat in the ring at the last minute! "seek the challenge" :angel. I've got 30 people who now directly report to me, with thousands of members I lead.

Gym:
- hitting personal bests in the gym
- currently up to 5x5 bodyweight for the benchpress, and 5x5 1.25x bodyweight for squat
- gone from being unable to do any pull ups or chin ups (due to an injury), up to doing 12 of each!
- my body is starting to look excellent

Girls: (even though this wasn't my plan)
- dated a model for a while (I've never dated a model before). She still seems interested but I've lost interest myself because there are more important things than girls
- had sex a few times with another girl I thought was hot from six months ago

Public Speaking:
- I've given four great speeches, with no anxiety
- public speaking is now easy and fun

No Fap:
- failure due to the aforementioned model... Back on it!

Other:
- I become angry at myself if I'm not the best I can be
- far more self acceptance and self validation; indifference to what others think
- improved character and virtue
- a realization that men grow through challenge

There have been some hard times, but that's because I was failing to live up to my potential. I know I'm now in a far better mental state to make my mark on the world.

I really look forward to the end result.. and then probably doing AM6 again to cement the gains. This is an awesome program.

The last couple of weeks I have suffered some very negative emotions. I've made some bad decisions in the past, was too lazy, and wasn't sufficiently responsible or accountable.

My previously bad behavior has led to some very negative emotional states - worse than I have ever experienced before in my life. For those who do the Sedona Method I was temporarily taken down to apathy, grief and fear.

I have now resolved my problems and am back up to courageousness, acceptance and peace.

However this has been a very, very serious kick in the ass. The burdens of leadership are great but I was failing to meet them. This can never happen again - or my family will suffer greatly.

I have learned the importance of responsibility, integrity, courage, mental strength, persistence, and overwhelming consistent action towards my purpose. I have also set a deadline of paying off the mortgage on the family home by next Spring (around ~$100k which I will need to earn on top of other income).

I will be implementing systems, positive habits, weekly and monthly goals, and accountability meetings to ensure that I work like a beast towards my purpose. I have reached the stage where procrastination, laziness and irresponsibility are utterly, utterly unacceptable.

When I began AM6 I was an irresponsible boy. Now I am a man.

This has been a really, really unpleasant week. The consequences of my previous behavior have really caught up to me.

However, I have finally had the courage to do something I've been putting off for far too long. I strongly believe that everything is going to be excellent within a day or two.

I will never let myself make such bad decisions again.