06-10-2024, 07:37 PM
(06-06-2024, 01:17 AM)Topaz Wrote: [ -> ]I'm not quitting just yet.
Quote:being perceived as "fuck meat" by the women
Shannon, when is that supposed to happen? At what stage?
IIRC most of us experienced that effect starting around stage 3, where the big guns start coming out. Some may have experienced it around 2 or 4, and some did not experience it. But every one of us who was executing well seemed to experience it. The women who respond seem to want to use you for their sexual gratification.
Quote:About the girl, I had already given up on her when she said I'm too old and such. But then she continued to text me. She texts me every day. I'm not sure what's her story because she keeps mentioning her boyfriend. I think she's thinking about cheating or considering her options, or maybe it just feels good for her to feel wanted.
Maybe ask her why she's still texting you if she has a boyfriend. It could also be that she's just wanting to be friends, or is attracted but can't let herself do anything because of boyfriend and beliefs, etc. This is actually an opportunity to turn it around on, and with, her if you know how, and maybe make more progress.
Quote:I've continued to learn PUA material and it's very demanding! I'm doing well and I like the frame I can create with an indirect approach. This way, if and when they behave as they often do here, I can keep my composure and maintain my value.
Do you have to try to get women interested there? Is that cultural in any way?