12-28-2021, 09:12 AM
I will try to keep this short.
Haven't met the goal yet but I guess I've seen somethings. There is one woman I got her number off tinder. Will see where that goes but also there is one other thing which is all the foreigner chicks I'm kind of long term with at the moment just starting getting more loving and willing to send photos. I do think i will still just focus on foreigner chicks mainly because quite frankly after an experience recently I kind of feel like the dating situation especially in western countries is just kind of toxic compared to what I've experienced in Asia and Latin America. I do plan on traveling next month or in February most likely to visit someone in Bolivia.
I have experienced some of the negative side effects of the sub in a way or I should say other's negative responses to the sub though the Shield in the sub has worked just fine. Basically I had ended up going on this very specific site because I'm more into submissive type women. So it was a site that was more on the submissive, dominant, etc relationship type of seekers. Since I already have some women i plan on moving in with after I get a remote job I thought that would also give me a bit more clout so I had mentioned that and put a picture here or there. Oh man, I have to tell you I was kind of skeptical about Shannon putting in so many safeties at first but now I really understand him a lot more on that. Basically I had a bunch of single males on that site (or at least a certain subset) who thought I was either "creepy" because I was involved with more than one woman long distance who i've had plans on moving in with for the long term or they just straight up refused to believe I was dating any of these women.
Holy shit you should have seen some of the toxicity and the insecurity on display. I literally saw one guy who in his profile mentioned how dominate and "alpha" he is who then posted in one of my personals I put out accusing me of thinking of women as just objects. His reason in believing this? Literally just because I used the term "my girls". Literally that was it and he thought I was toxic for some reason or had unhealthy views. I then kindly asked him they actually like it when I talk that way (which is true by the way) and if he does not qualify for what I asked (literally only mentioned women specifically) if he would kind just leave my thread. Dude then went on an argument session for I don't know how long clogging up my thread even after I blocked him and then only didn't respond anymore after I reported him as he knew he fucked up at the point and didn't want to dig himself any further. Another dude literally invaded my profile page and put toxic comments and BS on every photo I had put up.
It was the usual "You ain't going out with those women dude its just all fake" (this is despite me putting up proof of at least one whatsapp group chat we had made for ourselves in a screenshot). Ended up blocking him and reporting him. I mean throughout this whole episode I wasn't really upset more in disbelieve and I don't get what any of these guys were hoping to achieve with this nonsense. However as I said with this incident I actually understand why Shannon put all these safeties in. I can only imagine the horror of what would happen if you had guys like that having the aura working just fine like in DMSI. They obviously have plenty of insecurities (while calling themselves alpha and dominant) and have no qualms harming anyone they don't "like". The only thing I can assume is that these guys are so desperate and needy that it just scares women away and they can't stand seeing another guy who not only has a relationship with a woman but several. I think that just makes them fucking angry so much that they can't control themselves.
It kind of also made me sympathize with certain women more (well, not the ones with super bad or entitled attitudes). If your an attractive women and you have these kind of super needy and full of insecurities guys around you or trying to hit you up I can see why they just get tired of that nonsense. I think the worst part is with these guys is they literally delude themselves into thinking they are some great catch as well while they scream desperation and neediness. So I think I'm done with more local sites. Think I will just go back to international sites, etc. This has also made me want to leave the US even more. The dating market is full of women and men who are just emotionally and psychologically unstable yet they think they are just fine or a great catch. Yeah there are still plenty of decent people here but I feel like those are the minority. Just my personal opinion. Could be a bad belief system on my part that I need to get over so we shall see. I just find it a lot easier dating chicks from Asia or Latin America at this point.
Though to end this report I do have to say I am quite happy with the women I have been talking to even before this sub. Relationship seems to be getting better and they are just a lot more easier to deal with when there are issues. Anyway, to recap have one prospective women from tinder that I will see where that goes, had negative reactions from single males online (though the shield has held up), and fully understand from first hand experience why Shannon put these safe guards in place.
P.S. totally forgot internal changes have been great. Feeling a lot more happy, joyful and confident.
Haven't met the goal yet but I guess I've seen somethings. There is one woman I got her number off tinder. Will see where that goes but also there is one other thing which is all the foreigner chicks I'm kind of long term with at the moment just starting getting more loving and willing to send photos. I do think i will still just focus on foreigner chicks mainly because quite frankly after an experience recently I kind of feel like the dating situation especially in western countries is just kind of toxic compared to what I've experienced in Asia and Latin America. I do plan on traveling next month or in February most likely to visit someone in Bolivia.
I have experienced some of the negative side effects of the sub in a way or I should say other's negative responses to the sub though the Shield in the sub has worked just fine. Basically I had ended up going on this very specific site because I'm more into submissive type women. So it was a site that was more on the submissive, dominant, etc relationship type of seekers. Since I already have some women i plan on moving in with after I get a remote job I thought that would also give me a bit more clout so I had mentioned that and put a picture here or there. Oh man, I have to tell you I was kind of skeptical about Shannon putting in so many safeties at first but now I really understand him a lot more on that. Basically I had a bunch of single males on that site (or at least a certain subset) who thought I was either "creepy" because I was involved with more than one woman long distance who i've had plans on moving in with for the long term or they just straight up refused to believe I was dating any of these women.
Holy shit you should have seen some of the toxicity and the insecurity on display. I literally saw one guy who in his profile mentioned how dominate and "alpha" he is who then posted in one of my personals I put out accusing me of thinking of women as just objects. His reason in believing this? Literally just because I used the term "my girls". Literally that was it and he thought I was toxic for some reason or had unhealthy views. I then kindly asked him they actually like it when I talk that way (which is true by the way) and if he does not qualify for what I asked (literally only mentioned women specifically) if he would kind just leave my thread. Dude then went on an argument session for I don't know how long clogging up my thread even after I blocked him and then only didn't respond anymore after I reported him as he knew he fucked up at the point and didn't want to dig himself any further. Another dude literally invaded my profile page and put toxic comments and BS on every photo I had put up.
It was the usual "You ain't going out with those women dude its just all fake" (this is despite me putting up proof of at least one whatsapp group chat we had made for ourselves in a screenshot). Ended up blocking him and reporting him. I mean throughout this whole episode I wasn't really upset more in disbelieve and I don't get what any of these guys were hoping to achieve with this nonsense. However as I said with this incident I actually understand why Shannon put all these safeties in. I can only imagine the horror of what would happen if you had guys like that having the aura working just fine like in DMSI. They obviously have plenty of insecurities (while calling themselves alpha and dominant) and have no qualms harming anyone they don't "like". The only thing I can assume is that these guys are so desperate and needy that it just scares women away and they can't stand seeing another guy who not only has a relationship with a woman but several. I think that just makes them fucking angry so much that they can't control themselves.
It kind of also made me sympathize with certain women more (well, not the ones with super bad or entitled attitudes). If your an attractive women and you have these kind of super needy and full of insecurities guys around you or trying to hit you up I can see why they just get tired of that nonsense. I think the worst part is with these guys is they literally delude themselves into thinking they are some great catch as well while they scream desperation and neediness. So I think I'm done with more local sites. Think I will just go back to international sites, etc. This has also made me want to leave the US even more. The dating market is full of women and men who are just emotionally and psychologically unstable yet they think they are just fine or a great catch. Yeah there are still plenty of decent people here but I feel like those are the minority. Just my personal opinion. Could be a bad belief system on my part that I need to get over so we shall see. I just find it a lot easier dating chicks from Asia or Latin America at this point.
Though to end this report I do have to say I am quite happy with the women I have been talking to even before this sub. Relationship seems to be getting better and they are just a lot more easier to deal with when there are issues. Anyway, to recap have one prospective women from tinder that I will see where that goes, had negative reactions from single males online (though the shield has held up), and fully understand from first hand experience why Shannon put these safe guards in place.
P.S. totally forgot internal changes have been great. Feeling a lot more happy, joyful and confident.