(12-18-2021, 07:38 PM)achtung81 Wrote: [ -> ]i'm on stage 2 - about 2 weeks in...
is it normal to have feelings of jealousy come up? i noticed a couple in the subway and this woman was absolutely gorgeous... I just couldn't help but think that I don't measure up to the guy that she was with...
I was overcome with feelings of jealousy, inadequacy, envy, you name it...
also thought of a woman who i loved but who didn't feel the same way about me. it seems as if i have negative thoughts and emotions come up now.
This is the result of the subliminal pushing you in directions that conflict with your deeply held beliefs about yourself. Might be a good idea to explore and work through them with a little lotical analysis.
(12-18-2021, 09:32 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ] (12-18-2021, 07:38 PM)achtung81 Wrote: [ -> ]i'm on stage 2 - about 2 weeks in...
is it normal to have feelings of jealousy come up? i noticed a couple in the subway and this woman was absolutely gorgeous... I just couldn't help but think that I don't measure up to the guy that she was with...
I was overcome with feelings of jealousy, inadequacy, envy, you name it...
also thought of a woman who i loved but who didn't feel the same way about me. it seems as if i have negative thoughts and emotions come up now.
This is the result of the subliminal pushing you in directions that conflict with your deeply held beliefs about yourself. Might be a good idea to explore and work through them with a little lotical analysis.
Shannon, I mean to ask you - is it normal to feel a reduced urge to masturbate on stage 2?
That would make sense since SM is all about getting real sex, which means moving away from masturbation.
(12-20-2021, 07:40 AM)achtung81 Wrote: [ -> ] (12-18-2021, 09:32 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ] (12-18-2021, 07:38 PM)achtung81 Wrote: [ -> ]i'm on stage 2 - about 2 weeks in...
is it normal to have feelings of jealousy come up? i noticed a couple in the subway and this woman was absolutely gorgeous... I just couldn't help but think that I don't measure up to the guy that she was with...
I was overcome with feelings of jealousy, inadequacy, envy, you name it...
also thought of a woman who i loved but who didn't feel the same way about me. it seems as if i have negative thoughts and emotions come up now.
This is the result of the subliminal pushing you in directions that conflict with your deeply held beliefs about yourself. Might be a good idea to explore and work through them with a little lotical analysis.
Shannon, I mean to ask you - is it normal to feel a reduced urge to masturbate on stage 2?
Yes. As Ben said, the focus is on having real sex.
Third week into stage 2 - feeling heavy resistance but determined to push on... i will stop at nothing to become a sex magnet. i'm tired of being alone in an empty bed, night after night. i'm fed up with settling for less.
i will achieve my goals no matter what. i will have sex with a different woman every night...
(12-24-2021, 08:31 AM)achtung81 Wrote: [ -> ]Third week into stage 2 - feeling heavy resistance but determined to push on... i will stop at nothing to become a sex magnet. i'm tired of being alone in an empty bed, night after night. i'm fed up with settling for less.
i will achieve my goals no matter what. i will have sex with a different woman every night...
doing nofap is a serious push in this way, your only thing becomes going after a real woman rather than pmo, best wishes, I am on s3 on sm3
I'm on the last week of stage 2. I am not doing well at all. have zero confidence when it comes to women. i'm feeling quite depressed and miserable... i don't think there's any point to this at all... i'm having doubts as to whether this is working at all.
also feeling strong urge to give up. really feeling duped and thinking this is a scam.
It tends to get very dark it’s normal & par for the course. Press on. Ignore the pain.