(10-08-2020, 04:34 AM)kuroshabedi Wrote: [ -> ]Lol i am flirting right now with a cute girl inleggings in the waiting room of my doctor..
Didnt know of 5.75 is good for beeing relaxed and without anxious
Of course: no fears, no anxiety.
The more I read about OF experiences, the more I am convinced that fears are at the root of so many of our problems.
(10-10-2020, 09:33 AM)fab10 Wrote: [ -> ] (10-08-2020, 04:34 AM)kuroshabedi Wrote: [ -> ]Lol i am flirting right now with a cute girl inleggings in the waiting room of my doctor..
Didnt know of 5.75 is good for beeing relaxed and without anxious
Of course: no fears, no anxiety.
The more I read about OF experiences, the more I am convinced that fears are at the root of so many of our problems.
Yes i was just surprised that it was so natural to start flirting without thinking twice about it and i didnt know if it was me or the sub..
Yes 100 percent. Many areas in my life are changing.. from family to confidence to productivity just everything.. unfortunatly my negative appearance results are still happening but its okay maybe it needs more time
My ex did text me today like she always do every now and then but something changed. It doesnt mean much to me anymore. I am just laidback and i dont care if she is in my life or not.. i just let go of control i am sure that comes from OF 5.75.
Im interested to be with my family and to improve therelationships in my family and with myself. I see girls only as pleasure nothing serious anymore..
I dont know what Of 5.75 does to me but its doing really important steps to my self development
Hello.
How would you summarize in a nutshell your experience with the sub so far?
Any significant changes in your mindset and behavior?
(10-11-2020, 12:07 AM)Voytek Wrote: [ -> ]Hello.
How would you summarize in a nutshell your experience with the sub so far?
Any significant changes in your mindset and behavior?
Hey.
My changes so far:
-no victim mentality
-no more fear to accomplish life
-im now open to everything i have avoided
-no longer feared to be alone
-no fear to loose control
-no longer masturbating or watching porn
-gained hope in every area
-motivated to change and improve myself
-improved the relationships in my family
-i feel safe and stable and relaxed
-flirting seems easy for me now
-i am okay with every situation
-i dont fear failure/ success or changes in general
-everyday im open to do new things that i have procastionated
- i am no longer interested to find that one girl to be with me for the rest of my life instead i want to seduce as many girls as i want. I see girls as pleasure and no longer serious. I am focused on myself only. I am the most important person in my life
-i canceled every friendship that was unhealthy for me i didnt fear to be alone
- i have a positive outlook to my future
- i know i can be do and have everything i want
-and to be honest i dont fear if something bad happens its okay
I truly believe fear is the root of everything
You guys wont believe me what happend to me.. you remember thst girl from the waiting room.. when it was my turn to went to the doctors room i had no time to ask her number... andi thought i would never hear from her again. She wrote me now in instagram thats so mysterious lol
I had the most amazing enlightment in my life. Finally everything made sense. I understood how fear restricted me and i felt the most fearless state in my life. I was in the most optimistic state ever and i felt like i was shifting into a new me. It was so amazing i cant describe it but then suddenly i got the worst headache ever my stomach hurts i have stomach aches. Suddenly all my doubts came up to my mind and i feel scared ifeel like i will throw up
(10-11-2020, 01:43 PM)kuroshabedi Wrote: [ -> ]I had the most amazing enlightment in my life. Finally everything made sense. I understood how fear restricted me and i felt the most fearless state in my life. I was in the most optimistic state ever and i felt like i was shifting into a new me. It was so amazing i cant describe it but then suddenly i got the worst headache ever my stomach hurts i have stomach aches. Suddenly all my doubts came up to my mind and i feel scared ifeel like i will throw up
WOW! Your results are amazing. And then a strong bout of resistance
, hang in there!
(10-11-2020, 08:28 PM)fab10 Wrote: [ -> ] (10-11-2020, 01:43 PM)kuroshabedi Wrote: [ -> ]I had the most amazing enlightment in my life. Finally everything made sense. I understood how fear restricted me and i felt the most fearless state in my life. I was in the most optimistic state ever and i felt like i was shifting into a new me. It was so amazing i cant describe it but then suddenly i got the worst headache ever my stomach hurts i have stomach aches. Suddenly all my doubts came up to my mind and i feel scared ifeel like i will throw up
WOW! Your results are amazing. And then a strong bout of resistance , hang in there!
Yes suddenly i had constant conflicting thoughts. My whole body did hurt my stomach was pounding and i went from zero headache to extreme headache in a second. It felt like i was pushing against a wall and this wall was intimidated. All i wanted in that moment was to runaway to my old self.
I texted those friends that are unhealthy for me... i started to watch porn again.. and i have my victim mentality back..
I am sorry to dissapoint you all. I guess its more tough than I thought.
We're not disappointed. Everyone is here to grow. Growth is a series of downs and ups. In the end, we're trending up. Keep with it!
What you're experiencing is a phenomenon called the "tidal effect". It works like this:
1. The program starts working, and produces results.
2. Then, the part of you that was holding you in the situation you didn't want notices, reacts with a lot of fear, and kills your progress.
3. Then it gets comfortable because of everything being back the way it wants it to be, and relaxes.
4. The program continues working, and produces results.
5. Then, the part of you that was holding you in the situation you didn't want notices, reacts with a fear (but this time a little less, because the situation isn't quite as scary anymore because now it is a little more familiar), and kills your progress, but not quite as much as before.
6. Then it gets comfortable because of everything being back the way it wants it to be, and relaxes.
All this continues again and again, like the tide, with the fearful parts gradually becoming more and more comfortable with what the subliminal is working to accomplish as that reality becomes more and more familiar, without anything that was feared actually happening. In the end, the fear fades away and the program achieves its goals.
This response you had is just a very scared subconscious part of you trying to -- as it sees things -- "stay alive". But what it doesn't understand is that letting go of fear won't kill it or you. It is just a different state of being.
Be patient with yourself. You don't need to apologize to anyone. There are good reasons why this program is designed to be used 8 months per run-through. Just relax and keep going. OF will continue doing it's thing, and you may or may not have more "tides" like this one, but eventually with enough usage, OF will accomplish its goals.
You're doing great. Keep going.
(10-13-2020, 01:28 PM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ]We're not disappointed. Everyone is here to grow. Growth is a series of downs and ups. In the end, we're trending up. Keep with it!
Yes. Thanks for all the support
(10-13-2020, 05:11 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]What you're experiencing is a phenomenon called the "tidal effect". It works like this:
1. The program starts working, and produces results.
2. Then, the part of you that was holding you in the situation you didn't want notices, reacts with a lot of fear, and kills your progress.
3. Then it gets comfortable because of everything being back the way it wants it to be, and relaxes.
4. The program continues working, and produces results.
5. Then, the part of you that was holding you in the situation you didn't want notices, reacts with a fear (but this time a little less, because the situation isn't quite as scary anymore because now it is a little more familiar), and kills your progress, but not quite as much as before.
6. Then it gets comfortable because of everything being back the way it wants it to be, and relaxes.
All this continues again and again, like the tide, with the fearful parts gradually becoming more and more comfortable with what the subliminal is working to accomplish as that reality becomes more and more familiar, without anything that was feared actually happening. In the end, the fear fades away and the program achieves its goals.
This response you had is just a very scared subconscious part of you trying to -- as it sees things -- "stay alive". But what it doesn't understand is that letting go of fear won't kill it or you. It is just a different state of being.
Be patient with yourself. You don't need to apologize to anyone. There are good reasons why this program is designed to be used 8 months per run-through. Just relax and keep going. OF will continue doing it's thing, and you may or may not have more "tides" like this one, but eventually with enough usage, OF will accomplish its goals.
You're doing great. Keep going.
Thanks for the insight and explanation its appreciated
So i was playing basketball and i am in a team with toxic people that criticize you for every movement and i wanted to test how good the DRS works. So i did very bad mistakes on purpose.. (it was actually funny and obvious).
Normally it would affect me but it didnt affect me not at all it was like their negativity didnt reach to me. I really tried hard but there was nothing they even stopped and were understanding. I think a lot of things are how we interpret them like we have the choice to feel bad or negative.
It would be great if the DRS could be permanent in everyones life. I want this "safe space" inside me forever.