You know for the longest time I would get agitated at the thought of so-called shit-tests. I hated the idea that women might be un/consciously testing me because I found it stressful to try to be aware of those tests and pass them.
After reading that last post, I was met with a feeling of acceptance. My self-talk became: Women test us because they are wired to seek a strong, steadfast man, and I can be that for them by being true to myself.
Whereas before it was about trying to impress, now impressing her is a secondary gain to the primary goal of being real.
This has got to be AM6 at work (first day of Stage 6).
After reading that last post, I was met with a feeling of acceptance. My self-talk became: Women test us because they are wired to seek a strong, steadfast man, and I can be that for them by being true to myself.
Whereas before it was about trying to impress, now impressing her is a secondary gain to the primary goal of being real.
This has got to be AM6 at work (first day of Stage 6).
