sub for narcissism

[JackOfHearts]

I don't know it seems kind of unethical to expose people while they're unaware. I've thought about doing it for other people as well who won't see the light, but I figure if they don't want to change then don't force them too even if you think it would be for the best. I would be mad if somebody played a sub for me without my knowledge because I want to make my own decisions about my life and what I want to be.

Someone is lying on the ground, wounded very deeply, he can't speak for himself whether he want help or not, he is unconscious , would you help him or not? This is a similar situation.

A narcissist will never ask for help, he knows better than you ever will even if it's not true and you gave him irrefutable proof that he is wrong. He will always have the better answer, the better knowledge and you can't do anything about it. Everything you say comes last, his opinion comes first, he agrees only with his opinion. If your opinion is the same as him it's ok we are the best friend, when we disagree only him can be right, and you are obviously wrong, he won't even check your opinion, only his opinion has value.
Even worst than that sometimes you have the same opinion but he won't agree with you because you are the one who said that opinion first. Sometimes he will disagree with you on his opinion because he didn't remember that it was his opinion. Don't tell him it was his opinion, he obviously won't agree with you. The only hope is that you manipulate him to think that the idea came from him or you come up with an idea that you agree with but you act like you don't agree with it.

Living with that kind of person is hard, especially when that person blame you for being anti social with him when he is the one being anti social.

So that situation is a bit more complex here. Because you are involved with that person. A more accurate picture would be if that person wounded deeply have a influence in your life. So if he is healthy you will get healthier too.