smash being extremely lucky

[Shannon]

That´s really an interesting topic.

But, let me throw something in... you imagined being with a girl who has a LOT body features and lives within 20 minutes to your home. So, I can assume that this is the ONLY girl, that matches your imagination as person to be with... it would have been different, if you would have asked for "a brunette girl with c-sized breasts", there would be more options to choose from. But this way, you put her "free will" away, didn´t you?

No, I created a thread overlap. In other words, I caused my life thread (so to speak) to cross hers. It happened that I walked into a college math course, and there she was. In fact I actually already knew the girl, as we had dated in 8th grade!

But once I walked into that class and saw her, and it hit me like a brick to the head that she was who I had asked for, the manifestation was finished. It had done it's part. The rest (Breaking the ice) was up to me. So I waited for her to leave, and then I said hello. From there she and I talked, and she blurted out, "Oh goody, you caught me when I'm single." Obviously interested. That night I called her and spent 45 minutes trying to convince her I wanted to go on a date, and finally said, "Look, if you don't want to date me, just say so. Otherwise, meet me in the parking lot at the college and we'll go from there." She was there... and the rest is history.

Now, had I specified her by name, and specified that we would have sex, or a relationship, that would have left her out of the decision making process for what was going to happen with her, and that would have been wrong. As it was, I only caused our paths to cross, and then it was my move to express interest and go on a date, and her move to be interested or not. She retained free will the whole time.

But yes, she was the only such example of all those features in a lot more than 20 minutes from my house. I think subconsciously I was trying to find her again because she was a mirror soul mate and our time to be together was there, and I remembered all her features, and that she lived within 20 minutes of me.

Or another option... you´ve been with a girl & one day, it is over. Is it healthy, to imagine her lying in your bed again or has this also been some kind of karmic lesson?

Questions over questions...

I think, I have to read your thread again, to understand the details.

If you are dealing with someone specific whom you know, you are interfering with their free will unless they explicitly give you permission to do so. At which point you might as well just invite her over. Never specify a person, as that is directly manipulating their life.