new to SM's with goals in mind please need recommendations for my situation

[tinioie]

Welcome aboard, tinioie, and thank you for your patronage!

My advice is to assess what you need most in life, and then figure out what the basis of that need is. Work backwards to the root issue, and then tackle that issue by itself. You don't cut down the tree by attacking the branches, but the trunk or the roots.

So assess your situation. Is your biggest issue that you're not making enough money to move out? Are you not making enough money because you have no self esteem? Do you have no self esteem because nobody treats you well? Does nobody treat you well because you aren't successful? That's the pattern I had for a long time, and it basically became a cycle. Family treated me poorly because I didn't have my own place to live... so I got no respect. And I didn't have my own place while that was happening because I was unable to move past what they kept telling me (failure, can't, loser, etc.).

I broke the cycle using ASC, then US, then AM, and then BASE.

But ultimately you need to determine the root issue and attack that.

i also got a question about the life tune up, is it alright to like shuffle back to back on all the audiosets each day if you listen to it, or it has to be structured? im confused on those 6 stage sets