01-02-2013, 08:49 PM
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My advice is to assess what you need most in life, and then figure out what the basis of that need is. Work backwards to the root issue, and then tackle that issue by itself. You don't cut down the tree by attacking the branches, but the trunk or the roots.
So assess your situation. Is your biggest issue that you're not making enough money to move out? Are you not making enough money because you have no self esteem? Do you have no self esteem because nobody treats you well? Does nobody treat you well because you aren't successful? That's the pattern I had for a long time, and it basically became a cycle. Family treated me poorly because I didn't have my own place to live... so I got no respect. And I didn't have my own place while that was happening because I was unable to move past what they kept telling me (failure, can't, loser, etc.).
I broke the cycle using ASC, then US, then AM, and then BASE.
But ultimately you need to determine the root issue and attack that.
My advice is to assess what you need most in life, and then figure out what the basis of that need is. Work backwards to the root issue, and then tackle that issue by itself. You don't cut down the tree by attacking the branches, but the trunk or the roots.
So assess your situation. Is your biggest issue that you're not making enough money to move out? Are you not making enough money because you have no self esteem? Do you have no self esteem because nobody treats you well? Does nobody treat you well because you aren't successful? That's the pattern I had for a long time, and it basically became a cycle. Family treated me poorly because I didn't have my own place to live... so I got no respect. And I didn't have my own place while that was happening because I was unable to move past what they kept telling me (failure, can't, loser, etc.).
I broke the cycle using ASC, then US, then AM, and then BASE.
But ultimately you need to determine the root issue and attack that.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
