05-07-2019, 05:35 PM
wow... it feels like I have a lot of journaling catch up to do... Maybe I am a little bit ahead of myself but I was reading SM3 intructions and I have spotted a recurring theme that is also present in DMSI as well in the Stage 6 description:
Focuses on shifting “you approach and seduce them” to “they approach and seduce you”.
We'll see when I reach that stage and I'll approach it with an open mind but my stand on the question has always been that you can:
- Grab a woman attention
- Possibly charm her and generates attraction for you
- Then through strong frame control, set in place the frame that she is chasing you. You are the price.
Unless you are a celebrity or project a celebrity halo creating enormous social proof for you... You will generally have to make the initial step to get things going. Once the first step is done, through strong framing, you set up the frame that she is the one chasing you...
Another tip that I always use when dealing with women is ask myself, what would a man living in extreme abundance with women (think James Bond) would do in my situation?
For one, he would never reach out the girls. It is them that would always reach him out because he doesn't care, he has more women chasing him than he has time to see all of them... Despite not being there yet... It is very easy for me to emulate... I simply have zero neediness with women because my business which is my priority #1 provides me plenty of challenges to spend with...
Focuses on shifting “you approach and seduce them” to “they approach and seduce you”.
We'll see when I reach that stage and I'll approach it with an open mind but my stand on the question has always been that you can:
- Grab a woman attention
- Possibly charm her and generates attraction for you
- Then through strong frame control, set in place the frame that she is chasing you. You are the price.
Unless you are a celebrity or project a celebrity halo creating enormous social proof for you... You will generally have to make the initial step to get things going. Once the first step is done, through strong framing, you set up the frame that she is the one chasing you...
Another tip that I always use when dealing with women is ask myself, what would a man living in extreme abundance with women (think James Bond) would do in my situation?
For one, he would never reach out the girls. It is them that would always reach him out because he doesn't care, he has more women chasing him than he has time to see all of them... Despite not being there yet... It is very easy for me to emulate... I simply have zero neediness with women because my business which is my priority #1 provides me plenty of challenges to spend with...
