This is going to be some sort of wrap-up post as after a discussion with Shannon in his thread, I have decided to prematurely put my DMSI usage on pause, use MIR to fight an infection. I was thinking that I would need an antibiotic prescription but it seems like MIR works very well and I might get away from the prescription!
Then, it is going to be SM3.
The trigger behind this post is that the FWB just did pop back. I have been talking about her in many many posts in the last month.
On second date setup, she started to hesitate between me and another option. I did finally won.
First week of April after second date, we did chatted a bit. She couldn't see me that week. She said maybe next week (last week) and she was supposed to send me some pics of her when she did think about me. For almost 2 weeks, I got 0 message from her. Contacting her did cross my mind but I knew that the right thing to do was to leave her alone and wait for her to manifest herself.
So look at that. She met someone else last week and she spent all her free time with him.
It is funny how she did bring that on the table. She first said: My mind was somewhere else so I didn't text you.
I guess she said that to kinda lure me into asking where her mind was but I didn't bite. I said that I understand. My mind too was somewhere else (I am breaking up with my biz partner and I have been sick like a dog).
She did throw the bone on the table. I did stay cool. I said. Fine. I understand. This is a known pattern. After few weeks of seeing each other, I'm so good that the girl start feeling the urge to settle down (in fact, if I was a superhero in a superheros movie, THIS, right there would be my super power). Listen, I find you interesting and amazing and I wish that we had the chance to look where the chemistry between you and me could lead us. On one hand, you know that I'm not immediately available to commit. OTOH, if you feel like being in a relation, the most important is that you choose the right guy. Only you know the answer. I guess that it is time for me to find another naughty girl to exchange orgasms...
Concerning that girl in specific. I feel like she is really into me... Her favorite strategy to get what she wants appears to be to use jealousy plots on her target. Otherwise, I don't understand why she would go to the trouble to contact me to tell me about it almost 2 weeks after not writing me (I was in the process of forgetting about her...). First time that she did pull that trick on me, it did destabilize me a bit but this time... this is getting old... I don't care anymore...
It must be again some AM6 acquired reframing skill that makes me react in a cool way to that. I see her behavior as a sign that she is very attracted to me rather than feeling jealous and crushed to have lost a girl to another man... I honestly think that the other guy is just a tool to get me...
Confirmation of that... I was thinking journaling about the whole thing and this made me think about asking her, her astrological sign... (no idea why. I thought that knowing the answer would provide some sort of revelation but it didn't) but the important thing is that she was now very talkative and eager to chat with me.... I did put a stop very quickly to that as with what she told me, I don't see the point... I just told her that we need to stop or else I'll want to come to her place to spank her ass (I know she likes the idea...)
but bottomline, in terms of dealing with women, I feel like I am wisen up and seeing through what they do... and to win, it is just a matter to be above the shit that she throws at you... They are really fascinating... No way to get bored with women...
Then, it is going to be SM3.
The trigger behind this post is that the FWB just did pop back. I have been talking about her in many many posts in the last month.
On second date setup, she started to hesitate between me and another option. I did finally won.
First week of April after second date, we did chatted a bit. She couldn't see me that week. She said maybe next week (last week) and she was supposed to send me some pics of her when she did think about me. For almost 2 weeks, I got 0 message from her. Contacting her did cross my mind but I knew that the right thing to do was to leave her alone and wait for her to manifest herself.
So look at that. She met someone else last week and she spent all her free time with him.
It is funny how she did bring that on the table. She first said: My mind was somewhere else so I didn't text you.
I guess she said that to kinda lure me into asking where her mind was but I didn't bite. I said that I understand. My mind too was somewhere else (I am breaking up with my biz partner and I have been sick like a dog).
She did throw the bone on the table. I did stay cool. I said. Fine. I understand. This is a known pattern. After few weeks of seeing each other, I'm so good that the girl start feeling the urge to settle down (in fact, if I was a superhero in a superheros movie, THIS, right there would be my super power). Listen, I find you interesting and amazing and I wish that we had the chance to look where the chemistry between you and me could lead us. On one hand, you know that I'm not immediately available to commit. OTOH, if you feel like being in a relation, the most important is that you choose the right guy. Only you know the answer. I guess that it is time for me to find another naughty girl to exchange orgasms...
Concerning that girl in specific. I feel like she is really into me... Her favorite strategy to get what she wants appears to be to use jealousy plots on her target. Otherwise, I don't understand why she would go to the trouble to contact me to tell me about it almost 2 weeks after not writing me (I was in the process of forgetting about her...). First time that she did pull that trick on me, it did destabilize me a bit but this time... this is getting old... I don't care anymore...
It must be again some AM6 acquired reframing skill that makes me react in a cool way to that. I see her behavior as a sign that she is very attracted to me rather than feeling jealous and crushed to have lost a girl to another man... I honestly think that the other guy is just a tool to get me...
Confirmation of that... I was thinking journaling about the whole thing and this made me think about asking her, her astrological sign... (no idea why. I thought that knowing the answer would provide some sort of revelation but it didn't) but the important thing is that she was now very talkative and eager to chat with me.... I did put a stop very quickly to that as with what she told me, I don't see the point... I just told her that we need to stop or else I'll want to come to her place to spank her ass (I know she likes the idea...)
but bottomline, in terms of dealing with women, I feel like I am wisen up and seeing through what they do... and to win, it is just a matter to be above the shit that she throws at you... They are really fascinating... No way to get bored with women...
