08-09-2017, 11:58 PM
I had big issues with that. Like you wouldn't believe. Years and years of it, not getting over it until 25 years old. DMSI helped me get over self-sabotaging with it's anti-resistance modules.
I would say that all the advice people give you on penis size is true: you care more about it than the girl. I was terrified of showing my penis to anyone (it's average in length but a bit skinny in girth I think), but when I had sex with my now girlfriend it wasn't a problem. When we started getting more intimate and I shared with her my worries about it, she was surprised. She thought it was a good size, and sometimes when I'm very hard, she even comments on how big it is. It's not, but most girls don't see dick in real life as often as you do (seeing your own everyday) and so when they see a penis they can't really even tell if it's big or not. If you have a six inch penis and you tell a girl it's eight inches, she'll probably believe you.
There are a tiny percentage of women who will care, "size queens". These are generally sluts and probably not girls you would want to sleep with anyway.
So my advice would be to forget about that and jump straight in. Not easy advice, I know, as I resisted it for 25 years, but once you've done it you'll kick yourself for having let it hold you back this long.
Good luck.
I would say that all the advice people give you on penis size is true: you care more about it than the girl. I was terrified of showing my penis to anyone (it's average in length but a bit skinny in girth I think), but when I had sex with my now girlfriend it wasn't a problem. When we started getting more intimate and I shared with her my worries about it, she was surprised. She thought it was a good size, and sometimes when I'm very hard, she even comments on how big it is. It's not, but most girls don't see dick in real life as often as you do (seeing your own everyday) and so when they see a penis they can't really even tell if it's big or not. If you have a six inch penis and you tell a girl it's eight inches, she'll probably believe you.
There are a tiny percentage of women who will care, "size queens". These are generally sluts and probably not girls you would want to sleep with anyway.
So my advice would be to forget about that and jump straight in. Not easy advice, I know, as I resisted it for 25 years, but once you've done it you'll kick yourself for having let it hold you back this long.
Good luck.