deal with divorce

[Yuri]

Hey optom.

I truly understand where your coming from, I have a very dear person to me going through in somewhat the same thing all her life and she still is, actually this appears to be not much of an uncommon thing for women, and you should not think of this as dirty clothes because it is not in fact it is the guy that should be ashamed not you.

here is what I think of this at first you need to let go of all the emotional baggage you carried first and that will set you free, because for you every decision you need to make you need to consider your children and that is not a simple task.

but here is the truth you need to put yourself first to be able to help them because an empty cup sadly cannot fill another as much as it would want to.

I suggest AF for this, It might be able to give you the control back to your life that you need, because my guess is your problem is more than just money.

If it is only about money then I agree with Sean.