11-20-2012, 02:31 AM
HI, I did not really want to hang my dirty clothes out for all to see but since you can't pm Shannon (I can understand this to stop all kinds of people disturbing him) this is the only way I can get help or suggestions.
I am in a situation like I am sure a few of us have been in or might be one day. My husband doesn't love me anymore. It has been 5 years since we have had sex and I can't even remember when I had my last kiss or hug. Maybe my last hug was on my birthday. I have 2 children that are 7 and 4. He won't divorce me or let me go and support me; he doesn't want me to take the children. We are from 2 different countries and nationalities so if we split the kids will really suffer. He is not a bad father he doesn't abuse me physically he does not drink. So in his opinion we should just continue as is. Never mind if he has a girlfriend who is also married that he phones everyday and sees as often as possible. He thinks we should just carry on like this.
I can't really just leave him since it is really tough to find a job if the only thing on your résumé for the past 12 years is housewife.
I was wondering if it is possible to have a script that would help. That will help you decide that it is better for all to be happy and apart that miserable and together. Maybe it could be something that both can listen to at the same time that helps to clear out the doubts and that forces you to find a solution that doesn't hurt anyone but helps everyone accept facts.
I am not really expressing myself clear enough.
Or should I just go for something like luck Magnifier or BASE or BAMM.
I am in a situation like I am sure a few of us have been in or might be one day. My husband doesn't love me anymore. It has been 5 years since we have had sex and I can't even remember when I had my last kiss or hug. Maybe my last hug was on my birthday. I have 2 children that are 7 and 4. He won't divorce me or let me go and support me; he doesn't want me to take the children. We are from 2 different countries and nationalities so if we split the kids will really suffer. He is not a bad father he doesn't abuse me physically he does not drink. So in his opinion we should just continue as is. Never mind if he has a girlfriend who is also married that he phones everyday and sees as often as possible. He thinks we should just carry on like this.
I can't really just leave him since it is really tough to find a job if the only thing on your résumé for the past 12 years is housewife.
I was wondering if it is possible to have a script that would help. That will help you decide that it is better for all to be happy and apart that miserable and together. Maybe it could be something that both can listen to at the same time that helps to clear out the doubts and that forces you to find a solution that doesn't hurt anyone but helps everyone accept facts.
I am not really expressing myself clear enough.
Or should I just go for something like luck Magnifier or BASE or BAMM.