attract dates and romance

[Athena]

You're really helpful you know and thank you, I definitely appreciate it. I want to make loads of changes as you may have noticed but I HAVE and I AM and I will. One thing I have been thinking about lately is that even though I am romantic, I do get tired from my career (teacher) and I think I could do with being more extrovert myself in the sense of going out more, like to meetup groups and things. I DO do that, but I could do it a lot more. And I've been wondering if it might help me attract more outgoing guys in the sense that they LIKE to go out and date. I don't see any of them as bad. It's more boring interests, rather than bad. Not stimulating enough outside the bedroom, I guess ha ha even though they have cool personalities and senses of humor but they don't want to do much, they can be quite lazy but then again, driven as I am, I KNOW I need to be a LOT more driven. I have to work hard at work and the benchmark ALWAYS is increased so outside of that it's easy to want to just goof off on my own time plus I'm doing 50 hours a week in term times but I think if I push through my OWN inertia more and be even MORE proactive in my own life, in regards to my OWN non-job goals, maybe I will attract guys more like that. It's not that they don't like me, sometimes they even LOVE me and they are honest and kind and faithful but they are just for lack of a better word, lazy? But then, well, in what ways am I being lazy, I guess. Something to think about! I think the EPHRA is a great idea, I think I have that one and it could really help me.