Hey.
I have to thank you for introducing me to NLP. I heard Determined talking about it many time but your post made me take the leap.
I'm reading the book "NLP The Essential Guide" from Tom Hoobyar, Tom Dotz and Susan Sanders.
For first...I totally resonate with the philosophy and teachings of NLP.
The author said there's two important beliefs NLP searchers agree to, and guess what the first one is?
"There is no such thing as a inner enemy".
That's basically the realization I've been getting at since a few months and why I'm bitching about the resistance theory now.
The author explain clearly how "you can really let go of old beliefs like this". He doesn't say, changing beliefs is SO much of a big deal, having the subconscious fighting it, going against the conscious mind (reversal resistance) and so on and so.
So yeah, I resonate with that and I already saw interesting results just by shifting the thought that "Some parts of me are against me".
I'll dwell further into NLP but not sure if ahead in the book there will be any mention of "resistance".
I can see resistance as mental blockage, which is normal and an acceptable concept. But I fail to see resistance as "OMG my subC is fighting this change soooo fuckin much and doing everything he can to derail my will. How dare he!" kind of thing.
The authors state how you just have to understand your OWN thoughts pattern and intercept them for your beliefs to change.
You're on a sub over a year and it is not working ? My friend it is not your subconscious deciding to resist. It is the sub not working for you, your thought patterns, the way your mind works or for whatever other thousands of possibilities why the mind is unpredictable.
Mental issues can be dealt with when approached with the right tools, he said.
I know many will disagree but so far that mindset has proved to me to be more rewarding. And needless to say that allows you to explore ANY other possibility of failure rather then being fixated on a single scapegoat.
Subliminals with NLP can be a killer combo as I see. Subliminals are external stimuli, and based on how you react you can pin-point what to change with NLP.
Also...
That's smart. NLP. I've read the first practical exercise and it's just like visualization BUT in a very smart way.
That's genius and I can see how NLP can work for some people. Visualization always worked for me mostly, so I'm excited.
And the way NLP works, by changing how you REACT to external stimuli seems a very good approach because it's the thing I found worked the least with subliminals.
On DMSI 3.1A I had amazing moments of the sub working. Feeling power and euphoric and so on, and then, I step out of the house, see something I shouldn't have seen, and everything falls apart...
But with NLP technique you can reprogram how to react to external stimuli, and damn if that works that'd be gold for me because most of my issue in the relationship department come from negative reactions. Just seeing a female hurts sometimes - because I've only a baggage of negative experience.
Sure, with DMSI 3.1A I experienced emotional shield for some days and that was great, that feeling of total detachment, but if I can recreate that feeling at will with NLP with consistency that's even better.
So I think NLP is a good tool to have on top of subliminals when they do not work 100% as we want.
They seem alike but NLP is handled by the conscious mind, which has pros but also cons...People want to just listen to a sub and change their live the next day (including me) but you gotta put the work it seems. Anything being automated doesn't work so well. (Although working with thought-forms is an exception and works pretty well even thought you're handling the task to "something" else)
I have to thank you for introducing me to NLP. I heard Determined talking about it many time but your post made me take the leap.
I'm reading the book "NLP The Essential Guide" from Tom Hoobyar, Tom Dotz and Susan Sanders.
For first...I totally resonate with the philosophy and teachings of NLP.
The author said there's two important beliefs NLP searchers agree to, and guess what the first one is?
"There is no such thing as a inner enemy".
That's basically the realization I've been getting at since a few months and why I'm bitching about the resistance theory now.
The author explain clearly how "you can really let go of old beliefs like this". He doesn't say, changing beliefs is SO much of a big deal, having the subconscious fighting it, going against the conscious mind (reversal resistance) and so on and so.
So yeah, I resonate with that and I already saw interesting results just by shifting the thought that "Some parts of me are against me".
I'll dwell further into NLP but not sure if ahead in the book there will be any mention of "resistance".
I can see resistance as mental blockage, which is normal and an acceptable concept. But I fail to see resistance as "OMG my subC is fighting this change soooo fuckin much and doing everything he can to derail my will. How dare he!" kind of thing.
The authors state how you just have to understand your OWN thoughts pattern and intercept them for your beliefs to change.
You're on a sub over a year and it is not working ? My friend it is not your subconscious deciding to resist. It is the sub not working for you, your thought patterns, the way your mind works or for whatever other thousands of possibilities why the mind is unpredictable.
Mental issues can be dealt with when approached with the right tools, he said.
I know many will disagree but so far that mindset has proved to me to be more rewarding. And needless to say that allows you to explore ANY other possibility of failure rather then being fixated on a single scapegoat.
Subliminals with NLP can be a killer combo as I see. Subliminals are external stimuli, and based on how you react you can pin-point what to change with NLP.
Also...
That's smart. NLP. I've read the first practical exercise and it's just like visualization BUT in a very smart way.
That's genius and I can see how NLP can work for some people. Visualization always worked for me mostly, so I'm excited.
And the way NLP works, by changing how you REACT to external stimuli seems a very good approach because it's the thing I found worked the least with subliminals.
On DMSI 3.1A I had amazing moments of the sub working. Feeling power and euphoric and so on, and then, I step out of the house, see something I shouldn't have seen, and everything falls apart...
But with NLP technique you can reprogram how to react to external stimuli, and damn if that works that'd be gold for me because most of my issue in the relationship department come from negative reactions. Just seeing a female hurts sometimes - because I've only a baggage of negative experience.
Sure, with DMSI 3.1A I experienced emotional shield for some days and that was great, that feeling of total detachment, but if I can recreate that feeling at will with NLP with consistency that's even better.
So I think NLP is a good tool to have on top of subliminals when they do not work 100% as we want.
They seem alike but NLP is handled by the conscious mind, which has pros but also cons...People want to just listen to a sub and change their live the next day (including me) but you gotta put the work it seems. Anything being automated doesn't work so well. (Although working with thought-forms is an exception and works pretty well even thought you're handling the task to "something" else)
