12-11-2017, 11:24 AM
(This post was last modified: 12-11-2017, 11:38 AM by JackOfHearts.)
(12-11-2017, 08:42 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: avoid/ignore that person in the future.
That's what most people do, avoid, ignore, nothing happened.
Being overly aggressive is not alpha (extreme reaction), but getting angry is the normal reaction.
Most people avoid being angry at every little stuff. I used to do that. I thought it's self control. There are also others who don't show any aggressive in front but behind curse the guy to no end.
I learn a lot, I show my emotions, being angry when someone do something you didn't like is normal. Killing that guy because he disrespected you is not normal but telling him you didn't like what he did is something I think he OK He may as well learn something he wasn't aware of.
You may also have a kid one day, he does something that is not appropriate, you ignore it, instead of getting a bit angry, that anger give you the fuel to act on it and tell him he wasn't supposed to do that.
The anger here isn't meant at just being angry but at making you do something about it, instead of doing nothing.
Same thing with a girl friend doing something you didn't like, if you don't show your anger, she will think it's totally ok for her to keep doing that. Over time your life with her will be a nightmare, thanks to your "self control"
Anger is viewed as a bad thing by society in general, it's not, when it's targeted at the right thing, it's very good.