08-02-2010, 01:33 PM
(This post was last modified: 08-02-2010, 01:36 PM by WildFlower.)
(08-02-2010, 12:22 PM)Cortez Wrote: I would think that the woman magnet program would cover anxiety as well, though. From what I read on the information about it looked like it pretty much had that track built along with about a million other things.
I totally agree. And the Alpha set also had Anxiety covered pretty well too. This isn't a major departure from pure 100% Women Magnet exposure for me but a little add on to the side of it. I'm getting one listen of The half hour anxiety sub for every three listens of the one hour fourteen minute Women Magnet track so it's not much of a breakaway.
Like I mentioned in some of my previous posts I have consciously identified tendencies that have for a long time remained totally stealth. Indeed I still can't 'see' that anxiety I can only know it through observing my disposition(s). It is wrong to think what I am referring to as 'anxiety' is real, stereotypical anxiety (nerves, shakes, etc) - I am instead referring to dispositions. I mentioned that sexual tension (or tension in general) can be mildly dis-settling for me, a little bit uncomfortable and something I usually try to resolve. To resolve the uncertainty of say sexual tension I may think: "I think she likes me, but to be sure of it I better kiss her. And kiss her as soon as possible". My current 'program', if you will, (not just with women; with life in general) is to rush as quickly as possible in the direction of certainty and away from unknown fuzziness. One may say I am this way because I'm pragmatic, logical, and maybe even 'digital' in my thinking, but below this thinking there must be a certain emotional anxiety and 'push' towards psychological certainty. The introduction of the anxiety sub is not to ease concious anxiety but to expand my level of unconscious comfort; so I can slide up and down the uncertainty-certainty scale and remain at a constant comfort.
I'm already noticing from the Women Magnet sub alone that I am starting to enjoy revelling in the flirting, sexual-chemistry, pre-certainty stage of interactions with women, so it is clearly addressing that anxiety. I'm hoping the anxiety sub will address other non-women related anxieties I may unknowingly and unconsciously have. I'm after a broader range of unconscious comfort so I can be free to exercise concious thinking and decision making in whatever way I want and in whatever time I want, rather than be influenced by a particular anxiety driven disposition.
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung