11-17-2018, 11:00 PM
We had a sort of marriage counseling session today with a lady who is a trained counselor, and needs some hours in that type of counseling for some licensing thing. She’s a friend of a friend, and is helping us out for the hours and breakfasts at the diner we meet at. I think it was very productive. Hmmm, come to think of it, finding her was quite a stroke of luck. This thing seems to give me the luck on the important things. I haven’t really noticed the small random stuff that some have.
We discussed purchasing another copy of USLM so that she could be fully on it herself. I told her about the anti piracy thing. She didn’t seem to get it, and eventually said that she didn’t want to spend the extra money so she declined to go on it. I am continuing this journey on my own. Ok, that’s her choice.
By the way Shannon, is there any way you would modify the anti piracy statements in future programs so that it is ok to share it with family members who live in the same home? I can’t be the only one who doesn’t have the same schedule as their spouse. If we did, she’d be exposed as I listened anyway. I think it would be great if we could run the new LTU , but I am not going to pay five hundred plus dollars twice. No disrespect intended and I won’t mention it again, but I think being able to share it with someone who I’d normally share sleeping space with is reasonable. Please understand I am requesting, not trying to demand, and doing so with respect.
I remembered another dream. This is the second within a week, and I normally only remember two or three a year.
I was sitting on the very large porch of a nice house with my wife, roommate, and a couple of other people. It wasn’t the house we live in now, but I think it was ours. My ex live in girlfriend who I broke up with just before getting together with my wife (about fifteen years ago) showed up in a car with this Sleezy looking guy.
Little background. I met this girl through another of my exes the first college I went to. She was weird, obsessed with ren fairies and such, and pretty much lived in a fantasy world 24/7. Other than that though, she seemed like a decent person. She became obsessed with me though. For the next few years she kept insisting that we were soul mates, and kept contact pretty constantly even after I moved halfway across the country to go to a different school. At some point after that I thought I’d give it a chance. She moved out here, and we lived together for about six months. During that time she changed. She refused to get a job of any kind, do the slightest housework, she alienated all of the friends I’d made, she spent money as fast as I could earn it and pull it out of my college fund to avoid being evicted. She also collected a bunch of really sleezy orbiters (like the dude in the dream though he was no one I know) who she invited into the apartment while I was sleeping so I could go to school or work.
Anyway, she showed up in one of her ren fairy outfits got out of the car and gave me this hurt/hopeful look that she had down so well. My wife looked horrified. She looked like she was about to say something, but I didn’t even let her speak. I said “What the hell are you doing here?”. She looked more hurt (it was manipulative, she was very good at that). I said “Leave NOW!!”. The dream ended at that point.
I think I’ve dreamt about her coming to “reclaim” me a few times before, but I’m not sure.
We discussed purchasing another copy of USLM so that she could be fully on it herself. I told her about the anti piracy thing. She didn’t seem to get it, and eventually said that she didn’t want to spend the extra money so she declined to go on it. I am continuing this journey on my own. Ok, that’s her choice.
By the way Shannon, is there any way you would modify the anti piracy statements in future programs so that it is ok to share it with family members who live in the same home? I can’t be the only one who doesn’t have the same schedule as their spouse. If we did, she’d be exposed as I listened anyway. I think it would be great if we could run the new LTU , but I am not going to pay five hundred plus dollars twice. No disrespect intended and I won’t mention it again, but I think being able to share it with someone who I’d normally share sleeping space with is reasonable. Please understand I am requesting, not trying to demand, and doing so with respect.
I remembered another dream. This is the second within a week, and I normally only remember two or three a year.
I was sitting on the very large porch of a nice house with my wife, roommate, and a couple of other people. It wasn’t the house we live in now, but I think it was ours. My ex live in girlfriend who I broke up with just before getting together with my wife (about fifteen years ago) showed up in a car with this Sleezy looking guy.
Little background. I met this girl through another of my exes the first college I went to. She was weird, obsessed with ren fairies and such, and pretty much lived in a fantasy world 24/7. Other than that though, she seemed like a decent person. She became obsessed with me though. For the next few years she kept insisting that we were soul mates, and kept contact pretty constantly even after I moved halfway across the country to go to a different school. At some point after that I thought I’d give it a chance. She moved out here, and we lived together for about six months. During that time she changed. She refused to get a job of any kind, do the slightest housework, she alienated all of the friends I’d made, she spent money as fast as I could earn it and pull it out of my college fund to avoid being evicted. She also collected a bunch of really sleezy orbiters (like the dude in the dream though he was no one I know) who she invited into the apartment while I was sleeping so I could go to school or work.
Anyway, she showed up in one of her ren fairy outfits got out of the car and gave me this hurt/hopeful look that she had down so well. My wife looked horrified. She looked like she was about to say something, but I didn’t even let her speak. I said “What the hell are you doing here?”. She looked more hurt (it was manipulative, she was very good at that). I said “Leave NOW!!”. The dream ended at that point.
I think I’ve dreamt about her coming to “reclaim” me a few times before, but I’m not sure.
