10-16-2019, 07:10 AM
(10-16-2019, 06:30 AM)Infinite Wrote:(10-15-2019, 05:40 PM)Paul1131 Wrote: I need some advice. I’ve mentioned some of this before, so bear with me here. My next goal after financially stabilizing us is to get back into the career I really want to be in. I have two ways of doing that. The first, which has worked like a charm twice is to use Find your perfect job in 5G. That got me essentially the same job twice within two months each time. The bad news is that I managed to mess it up both times due to fear, self sabotage and all that fun stuff. The second option is to set that as my only goal and use the next version of USLM. The good with that is that it’ll have FRM and all the good 5.75 G stuff, so I’ll be all FRMed up and on it when on the job training starts. The bad part is that getting the job was my second goal on USLM 1-3 and LTU, and I got nothing. In fact I had some pretty out there stuff happen to stop me from getting one of the jobs I went for.
I have two potential game plans. Number one is th start USLM as soon as I’m done with the purely financial goal and have the goal of getting another job in the field. Option number two is to run FYPJ until I’m sure I’m hired and then jump right on USLM for the OJT part. Thoughts?
I would think that if it was your perfect job that the job would have worked out. Having messed it up twice makes me think that it wasn't the perfect job. Is it possible that's what the sub was trying to show you? Being on UMS showed me that a job that I thought would be good for me was not good at all.
If it was indeed the perfect job for you then you would need to work on the destructive thoughts that led to the behavior that messed it up. Get the right subliminal plus get some counseling.
I think that UMS should lead you to the right job and help you to attain it. When my SO was on USLM3, he got an unexpected job offer. Even though it was a huge change for our lifestyle, making the switch was easy, things just flowed.
FYPJ landed me in the same job twice. It was the job I had been going for for years before that, but just couldn’t get over the hurdle. I believe that my issue was largely that I always thought of myself as a failure before that, and succeeding at the one major thing I’ve really ever dedicated myself to really scared the hell out of that part of me. I self sabotaged like hell when it came down to it. I didn’t have the tools to deal with it then. I do now.
If that isn’t my perfect job, then I don’t know what is either, but I don’t seem to be coming up with any other ideas. All of my education and experience is geared toward that and two closely related fields, so I don’t think that UMS is going to lead me anywhere different. I do have some time to think on it though.
Thanks for your perspective.
