UMS. Let’s get at it

[Shannon]

Increase her exposure.  Once I found a way past my girlfriend's resistance, she stopped fighting it.  It means she's not getting quite enough exposure.

Ok, should we wait until the next time she’d run it, or start that now?  I was thinking of telling her to run five or so loops while she slept.

I don't know how many loops she's doing or how long it's been since you had loops.  I'm finding that gf and I are running loops about every 4 days off to keep both of us from having it wear off enough to resist.  My question is, is she going to try to resist more if you wait for that 4th or later day when you tell her to run 5+ loops?  And really I think 5 would be the minimum I would try.

I have taken to running loops whenever I start seeing signs of resistance in my girlfriend.  But like I said, resistance simply means she isn't getting enough loops, and/or loops frequently enough.