UMS. Let’s get at it

[Paul1131]

Could it be your subconscious way of giving closure to the relationship?   Everyone in the dream had moved on.  It wasn't just you and her.  The video games she gave you are outdated, a thing of the past.  Whatever meaningful conversation you had, you can't even recall, so it might not even matter.  She didn't look as attractive anymore because you're not as attracted to her like you used to be.  The dream ended with you playing with her kids.  The relationship has changed into a social one, it's not romantic anymore.

Thanks Infinite.  I think you may have hit the nail on the head with the bringing closure part.  That relationship had remained open in my head for many years after the last time I last had any contact with her.  I think it’s been interfering with my happiness and maybe my life success since then.  May even have influenced my current choice of a partner.  It was mostly gone while was on LTU, but now that I think of her after the dream it feels , you’re right, closed.  
Ncbeareatingman you are right, it’s either FRM going or E3.  

I have noticed on this one that the nature of the dreams I’m having has changed.  I’ve only had two, but they both seemed very long and involved.  There were weeks of perceived time in the last one, and I think in the one before that too.  They were very coherent with a lot of things going on at the same time which made sense in context.  They had very complex “story lines” of which I only remember a little.  However I remember there being a lot more to it.  There is definitely something changing here.