01-07-2014, 12:17 PM
(01-06-2014, 05:34 PM)Shannon Wrote: That sounds like respect hits. I get that a lot. Guys frequently tell me things like, "I wanna be like you someday." or "You da man!" or ask me for advice or tell me I'm amazingly smart, etc. without me doing or saying anything that should necessarily warrant that sort of thing. It's because they sense they are in the presence of a superior male and they want to have your approval, most of the time. They admire and respect you.
I think you are right. After today it more and more looks like they want to get advice about all kinds of things and for the advice I get compliments ("You can be proud of yourself" "You are smart" "You know your stuff"), which are not meant in a gay sense. I just was not used to experiencing this in that quantity in such a short time
Focus and push through. (Uncle B)
