04-03-2012, 04:52 PM
You have hit the nail on the head. Many women are used to submissive, easily controlled and manipulated beta males in this country. They have a thousand of him for every one they reject, so they can get away with acting and thinking like that.
Many of them have been raised from birth believing that is simply how you deal with men, and especially in some sub-sections of the population, which are decidedly matriarchal, including the average American black family, from what I have seen.
But it's the men who will not be controlled, who refuse to be manipulated, who do their own thing and say what they think, who get the respect, and in the end, have the best options. Because the best females will always go for the best males, and what these women are saying to you is really, "You aren't going to get any woman of my caliber that way." Well, sweetie, your caliber isn't on my level, so that's your problem, not mine. Women tend to try to find men they feel on par with. Higher quality men get higher quality women. More dominant and self directed men get higher caliber women. That's just the way it goes.
So enjoy. When women tell you stupid crap like that, chuckle. They have just admitted, without being smart enough to realize it, that you're out of their league.
Many of them have been raised from birth believing that is simply how you deal with men, and especially in some sub-sections of the population, which are decidedly matriarchal, including the average American black family, from what I have seen.
But it's the men who will not be controlled, who refuse to be manipulated, who do their own thing and say what they think, who get the respect, and in the end, have the best options. Because the best females will always go for the best males, and what these women are saying to you is really, "You aren't going to get any woman of my caliber that way." Well, sweetie, your caliber isn't on my level, so that's your problem, not mine. Women tend to try to find men they feel on par with. Higher quality men get higher quality women. More dominant and self directed men get higher caliber women. That's just the way it goes.
So enjoy. When women tell you stupid crap like that, chuckle. They have just admitted, without being smart enough to realize it, that you're out of their league.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!