Well today I hung out with a girl for a little over an hour. She met with me ten minutes after the specified time because she was taking a nap and I guess her alarm went off at the specified time so she got there about ten minutes after. She texted me right at the time to let me know. No big deal. I see her and hug her with both arms, she firmly hugged me one armed. I took her to a place with cool chairs. We just chilled for a bit. She's not that talkative compared to other girls I've met. At first I thought she wasn't comfortable, but no it's definitely just how she is. She was on her phone throughout the interaction, definitely not non-stop but enough for me to notice. She's on the younger side so I thought maybe it was just habit. I could tell she was definitely listening to me though. She casually mentioned that she has her room to herself most of the time since her roommate tends to stay with the bf (but this was mentioned when I brought up my roommates, so maybe coincidence). We got up after a bit and went for a walk.
After an hour or so with her, I made up a good excuse to leave. Nothing was gonna happen because I was definitely unprepared (no condom or anything, place not clean). She mentioned a restaraunt on the campus she went to earlier that I wanted to go by. I told her to let me know the next time she goes and I'd be down to go. She giggled and said okay. We said our goodbyes and I reached out one arm to hug her, she hugged me one armed and put her head on my chest briefly (she's shorter than me) and then I just put my other arm around her for a regular hug. That was that.
Afterwards though, I realized that I wasn't ready/comfortable to have sex with her yet (before this, I only had like a 5-10 min convo with her). But I'll make sure I'm prepared next time.
Thoughts
Well I didn't see anything crazy at all. But I thought her putting her head on my chest briefly when we said by was a good thing. I'll stick with version A for a while longer.
After an hour or so with her, I made up a good excuse to leave. Nothing was gonna happen because I was definitely unprepared (no condom or anything, place not clean). She mentioned a restaraunt on the campus she went to earlier that I wanted to go by. I told her to let me know the next time she goes and I'd be down to go. She giggled and said okay. We said our goodbyes and I reached out one arm to hug her, she hugged me one armed and put her head on my chest briefly (she's shorter than me) and then I just put my other arm around her for a regular hug. That was that.
Afterwards though, I realized that I wasn't ready/comfortable to have sex with her yet (before this, I only had like a 5-10 min convo with her). But I'll make sure I'm prepared next time.
Thoughts
Well I didn't see anything crazy at all. But I thought her putting her head on my chest briefly when we said by was a good thing. I'll stick with version A for a while longer.
