(06-06-2016, 06:48 AM)Shannon Wrote: My money is on, Japanese chick never calls. Even in the supposedly "liberated" United States, women almost never call the man, no matter how interested they are because it is "expected" that the man take all the risk of rejection, all responsibility for everything that does happen, and do all the leg work to get it there.
Japanese culture strikes me as being even less likely for such a thing to happen, but hey, maybe I'm wrong.
I'm with Shannon on this one. Had the hater not intervened, I would've gotten her number and just taken control of the situation. I get the distinct impression however that she may not have had a phone. From what I understood, she had JUST arrived in the U.S. maybe a month ago so she could learn the ropes of the family business. I bet she's probably under some serious "lock and key" due to the fact she's young and Japanese culture is conservative. I don't know if I'd even want to deal with the hassle of having to meet the parents / guardians and all that other craziness just to get her out of the house.
Same thing happened to me when I was in Cali. Fell for this gorgeous, innocent latina -- HARD. She was with this dude for like five years and was still a virgin. Long story short, I took her virginity in the parking lot of her job. We ended up really connecting, and she wanted to date me, but Mexican culture on the west coast is CRAZY conservative. She said for us to date, she'd first have to break up with her boyfriend -- who was really involved with her life (same church, activities, etc.), then I'd have to get the approval of her mom, then her dad, and we'd have to go to their church together. I nope'd the f*ck out of there.
Here's the thing, and I dunno if it's AM6 or AOSI causing this (I'm suspecting the latter), but there's this abundance mentality that's suddenly manifested in regards to women. I don't care if she calls me or not. Like, at all. There will be others, especially with this sub. Check it out -- I think the aura's still working, even though it's been quite a few days and even though I don't feel it.
So, I'm out and about grabbing some supplies for my business. I've been hard at work on a new website and a new product to launch, so I haven't shaved in a few days. I'm wearing some smelly, stained workout clothes from my early morning run. Standing in Wal-Mart, eyeballing one of those fitness smartwatches. I feel someone staring at me. I look up -- it's this pretty 7/10 latina wearing some super tight yoga pants. Short, innocent face, amazing curves -- JUST MY TYPE. She's eyeballing me so hard that it's UNNERVING. Then, she turns around to the smartphones and bends over to "look" at a phone she clearly wasn't interested in. I mean, she was holding an iPhone 6 Plus, so I doubt she was interested in a $30 prepaid phone. Nah, that was a butt display. At this point, I'm so shocked that I can't say anything. I'm not in the zone because my mind is solely on business. When I don't respond, she then makes a point to saunter by me, making sure to walk in front of me so I get a good view and then say, "please excuse me, sir."
Yes, I should've said something. No, I didn't. Hands full of shipping boxes, I'm smelling like old shoes, mind on these stupid Facebook ads that won't convert -- I just wasn't there mentally. Missed opportunity. Oh well, there'll be others.
So, I'm leaving the electronics area when I physically bump into this rather fat chick. She had no chance with me, but whatever. She breaks into this huge huge smile and apologizes. I apologize and move on. A moment later, I feel like there's something behind me (and this hyper-awareness is getting creepy, it's almost like a Spidey signal for someone in your aura). I glance behind me -- it's HER. The fat chick. So, I play it cool and take a turn into the clothing section, start looking at some t-shirts. Guess who places herself in my view, over in the bikinis (that she couldn't wear), glancing over her shoulder? Yep, her again. So I'm like f*******ck, I'm being stalked. I'm thinking, if I walk fast enough, she won't be able to catch me (yeah that's mean, but whatever). So I do just that. I hold my phone to my ear and I'm like "What?! I'm on my way," and I bolt. Now here's the CREEPTASTIC thing. I rush through the checkout line. I turn around and scan the area -- I see her walking from checkout line to checkout line glancing around. I dunno if she was looking for me or not, but I took off.
You could say that S4 of AM6 is causing this but I'm not sure. I mean, I looked downright hobo-ish today, so whatever was affecting these women must've had a beautifying effect -- which leads me to believe that the aura is still present in some way.