03-15-2018, 11:48 AM
(03-15-2018, 04:50 AM)Determined Wrote:(03-15-2018, 04:27 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote:(03-15-2018, 04:05 AM)samba99 Wrote: I was just interested in the tech and how it felt to him from 1 to 7
It is an innocent question, and I understand we are curious about how he is doing. But we gotta be empathetic to how he feels too.
I know that Catman didn't like journaling so much in the past, cause people were hounding him so much. Pressuring him so much isn't good either, especially projecting huge expectations onto him like "probably getting laid like a rockstar". It's like how Asian parents expect their kids to always score 100% on their tests - it really fucks them up.
All I can say is learn to put yourself in other people's shoes and give people space.
I'm finished replying to anything related to this. Let Catman address his preference.
No need to go all SJW here.
No one's pressuring him. My comment is a light jest. No one knows what's going on in CatMan's world, least of all you. Taking an experience from your own life and then making the assumption that "THIS MUST BE WHAT HE'S FEELING" without any indication or evidence is fallacious.
For the record: CatMan has stated that he has access to a number of high quality women who want to sleep with him by virtue of his social status. He refuses to do so because he believes in higher principles. Getting laid isn't his aim so there's no way beyond your own subjective bias that he'd be feeling "pressured".
I'm in agreement with everyone else here, we're all curious as to how CatMan is faring because we love the guy.
So calm down, take a chill pill and have a breather.
If CatMan really can sleep with some women due to his social status and does not because of "principal", then he deserves to be in his position. He is 35 and still a virgin and if he is turning down experience to get better with women and sex, then he has no one to blame but himself. If he was 19 or even 22 it would make sense to an extent but not when your about to become forty and most people lost their virginities two decades ago and are now married, have kids, or have slept with many partners.
But I don't recall he did say he could sleep with women due to his social status.