07-28-2011, 09:12 AM
(07-19-2011, 08:48 AM)The GK Wrote: Stage 2 - day 7
I went out with some friends after some time and I saw that:
Neediness is almost gone and now whenever I see even a 10 (a really hot one) I just find her try-hard (trying to hard to look pretty, showing of her body in small clothes etc.). I don't chase women anymore, where as before I would do anything to get even a 5 (an average woman). I saw other guys chasing women and it made me cringe.
It's funny, I wasn't thinking about it but now that you mentioned this I've noticed the same thing myself. I find the opposite is also true though regarding women trying too hard. I find that when they act authentically and are really themselves not just trying to get attention, I appreciate it more. I also find I judge women less and I am ok just enjoying them without trying to get them. I'm pretty much at the same point in the AM program as you.