I think Mr. Alexander's problem is the same as Shannon's. It's an issue with guy's perception of what an alpha male represents, which is tunnel vision and focused on results with women, and a needy beta view of the world so it isn't a correct view of alpha males. So both men have to cater to that view (in the short term), in order to get men to take action. I'll expand on that below.
You see, Mr. Alexander has an excellent book there, giving men the blueprint to become an alpha male from top to bottom. It's main message, and genius, is to teach men to focus INWARD to develop themselves in order to lead a highly fulfilling life. That will also give a side benefit of more attraction with women. But the focus is on YOU. Instead of PUA stuff, where they don't develop themselves, and focus on the OUTWARD on the WOMAN, which is a fatal flaw. I'm not interested in circular logic PUA rants, chances are I've delved in it and spent much more than you, so spare me before you write your novels in retort. PUA is beside the point from this post.
Shannon recommends that book from Mr. Alexander alongside his AM6 program so it's obvious there will be a lot of overlap between the two. So it's like Mr. Alexander's book and MORE instilled in AM6. Burning the program into your mind automatically simply by pressing play. Incredible, still amazes me these things work.
The PROBLEM for both Mr. Alexander, and for Shannon, is most guy's first perception of what an alpha male is when they're first viewing "How To Become An Alpha Male" or "Alpha Male V6" sale's pages. They have to contend with most guy's stunted, beta male views and what end result they could achieve (generally focusing on women to an extreme which is opposite to alpha males) with either product in order to feel motivated enough to buy. Now, we all know, sadly, that if you compare two messages in sales copy, which would pull better from that starting market and their views, bring more sales:
1. Talking about the wholesome, satisfying life you will lead. How you will understand and get over hurts in the past, how old things won't stop you. You will gain maturity and wisdom. You will be the leader of your social group and fly to heights you've never dreamt possible. You will be able to become the best self expression you can possibly be in every way, inside and out. Oh yeah, you'll also be more normal and attractive to girls too as a result of all that as a side benefit.
OR
2. You will finally become the alpha male of your dreams. You will have the attention of tons of ladies. Women will be in awe of your newfound strength, confidence, and attractive personality. Women will find you irresistable, and you will attract women without much effort as your newfound alpha male dominance will create respect and admiration wherever you go.
See what I mean? One is focused INWARD, and one is focused OUTWARD, and worse, pretty much completely fixated on women and getting their approval, validation, attraction, sex. None of these things are alpha male behaviours. Approval seeking and external validation from women, and chasing women, fixating on women often, are complete polar opposites from alpha behaviour. I can give you an example from my life today about an hour ago about this and how I'm living the life of AM6, not just talking BS, but it doesn't matter. The point is, both men realised, that you have to send the first message about the product through the lense of your prospect so he'll be motivated to take action and buy. So they both mention women a bunch of times, but that's necessary because of the stunted, myopic, beta view most men have of alpha male life. After purchasing, then, once he starts the process, will learn the maturity and wisdom to realise it isn't about women 24/7, and that they're merely a side aspect to an alpha male's life and he can take them or leave them and be just as happy. THAT is freedom, THAT is alpha. And those who are wrapped up in women and their validation and approval, will never become alpha. Letting go of that and growing from the inside out is alpha. I do things now to hot girls around me, blunt real talk and no nonsense stuff, brass balls stuff I'd NEVER do before these subs. I'd be too scared of making girls mad or cutting me off and losing the validation of being around a hot girl. Now, I'm real with them and don't give a damn if they stay or go from my life. I'm straight up and trusthworthy, I tell them the honest goods. I'm not an orbiter trying to blow smoke up their asses to tell them what they want to hear to get sex from them. And you know...not one has left...
Food for thought bro. Great thread. Hope it doesn't get derailed with nonsense.
You see, Mr. Alexander has an excellent book there, giving men the blueprint to become an alpha male from top to bottom. It's main message, and genius, is to teach men to focus INWARD to develop themselves in order to lead a highly fulfilling life. That will also give a side benefit of more attraction with women. But the focus is on YOU. Instead of PUA stuff, where they don't develop themselves, and focus on the OUTWARD on the WOMAN, which is a fatal flaw. I'm not interested in circular logic PUA rants, chances are I've delved in it and spent much more than you, so spare me before you write your novels in retort. PUA is beside the point from this post.
Shannon recommends that book from Mr. Alexander alongside his AM6 program so it's obvious there will be a lot of overlap between the two. So it's like Mr. Alexander's book and MORE instilled in AM6. Burning the program into your mind automatically simply by pressing play. Incredible, still amazes me these things work.
The PROBLEM for both Mr. Alexander, and for Shannon, is most guy's first perception of what an alpha male is when they're first viewing "How To Become An Alpha Male" or "Alpha Male V6" sale's pages. They have to contend with most guy's stunted, beta male views and what end result they could achieve (generally focusing on women to an extreme which is opposite to alpha males) with either product in order to feel motivated enough to buy. Now, we all know, sadly, that if you compare two messages in sales copy, which would pull better from that starting market and their views, bring more sales:
1. Talking about the wholesome, satisfying life you will lead. How you will understand and get over hurts in the past, how old things won't stop you. You will gain maturity and wisdom. You will be the leader of your social group and fly to heights you've never dreamt possible. You will be able to become the best self expression you can possibly be in every way, inside and out. Oh yeah, you'll also be more normal and attractive to girls too as a result of all that as a side benefit.
OR
2. You will finally become the alpha male of your dreams. You will have the attention of tons of ladies. Women will be in awe of your newfound strength, confidence, and attractive personality. Women will find you irresistable, and you will attract women without much effort as your newfound alpha male dominance will create respect and admiration wherever you go.
See what I mean? One is focused INWARD, and one is focused OUTWARD, and worse, pretty much completely fixated on women and getting their approval, validation, attraction, sex. None of these things are alpha male behaviours. Approval seeking and external validation from women, and chasing women, fixating on women often, are complete polar opposites from alpha behaviour. I can give you an example from my life today about an hour ago about this and how I'm living the life of AM6, not just talking BS, but it doesn't matter. The point is, both men realised, that you have to send the first message about the product through the lense of your prospect so he'll be motivated to take action and buy. So they both mention women a bunch of times, but that's necessary because of the stunted, myopic, beta view most men have of alpha male life. After purchasing, then, once he starts the process, will learn the maturity and wisdom to realise it isn't about women 24/7, and that they're merely a side aspect to an alpha male's life and he can take them or leave them and be just as happy. THAT is freedom, THAT is alpha. And those who are wrapped up in women and their validation and approval, will never become alpha. Letting go of that and growing from the inside out is alpha. I do things now to hot girls around me, blunt real talk and no nonsense stuff, brass balls stuff I'd NEVER do before these subs. I'd be too scared of making girls mad or cutting me off and losing the validation of being around a hot girl. Now, I'm real with them and don't give a damn if they stay or go from my life. I'm straight up and trusthworthy, I tell them the honest goods. I'm not an orbiter trying to blow smoke up their asses to tell them what they want to hear to get sex from them. And you know...not one has left...
Food for thought bro. Great thread. Hope it doesn't get derailed with nonsense.
