11-23-2015, 06:54 PM
(11-23-2015, 06:53 AM)Alpha360 Wrote: Great journal, it was fun to read. It's nice to see someone who is different, has another perspective. How old were you when you discovered masturbation?
If I remember correctly I was around 9 when I first saw a porn movie
I have a personal rule for masturbation, If I do every 5 days it's fine.
Most of the time I go much higher, sometimes I just get crazy for a few days and I masturbate like crazy. But on average it's fine. I don't see the need to go more than 2 weeks off without masturbation though. Maybe it's useful I don't know. For the average person I would say it's fine 1 masturbation per week. It's easier to go for the extreme though. Because when you masturbate the next day you want to do it again and again. After a week without masturbation I feels like I don't care about masturbation anymore.
Good luck with your journey.
One more thing: I don't think masturbation addiction is a new thing that came with porn recently. That addiction has always been there. Porn just help us to get a bit more crazy.
I really dont count masturbation as a bad habit nor a good one..The thing is we shouldnt judge anything and leave that right to God/ Universe/Karma (Whatever u believe in)....
Know people fap time to time but I really believe that intentions count..not the deed it self..You cant blame a person and say he did a sin unless u know his intentions..
For me I was fapping to escape life problems and emotional growth....Doctors say that its healthy to fap..But was I really fapping to be healthy? If I was then I would have also joined gym and stopped eating junk food..But no I didnt...so I was fooling myself...
I fapped at the age of 10 but without porn and my fantasies were enough for me..
