02-14-2011, 02:12 AM
(02-13-2011, 12:35 PM)Shannon Wrote: I will make it more obvious regarding the use of earbuds/headphones when I have a bit of time.
I do not, however, condone the use of mono speakers. If I did, that was not intentional; stereo only. If the speaker I suggested earlier is mono, then rest assured that I did not see that it was mono.
When someone experiences the desired effect at first and then later reversal, it is because of resistance. I don't know your mother, and I cannot say what she is like but for some people, negativity is their way of achieving what they want. In my grandmother, it was her way of achieving the attention she wanted. In my ex, it was how she got out of doing things she didn't wan to do, by projecting worst case scenarios and then declaring it was hopeless, and that she was helpless. If negativity is a learned response that achieves a goal for which there is no other way to achieve that goal known to the subconscious, there will certainly be resistance. Presuming that she is not the type who can and will resist successfully, the program will eventually overcome that resistance.
That sounds about right, not to go into much detail but I can safely say that my mother uses a lot of manipulation towards others (like me) to get her attention or appreciation. She definitely gives to get, and if she doesn’t have it her way she tries to put on a guilt trip on me or my sister, or tries to devalue you as a person. It’s wrong in her eyes to do something just for yourself, because she never had the opportunity to when she was younger. And her problems are always bigger than ours.
Also she’s pretty stuck in the past, playing that same old record over and over again, which was one of the reasons for me to put her on Disconnect From Negativity Within in the first place, and because I’m done listening to problems that happened many decades ago…
And thanks for listening to my “plea”, I’m glad to see the changes you brought around here.
