Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[Shannon]

Shannon, *need help with the last part*

First I would like thank you for upgrading USLM for FREE!

If I had given it a longer, more reasonable period of time between build and upgrade, I might have given a discount or expected a full price to be paid. But because this upgrade is coming in so quickly, it does not seem reasonable. I know it would upset me, if I was the consumer, to have to pay for it twice in such a short period of time. So it's a free upgrade.

Since I started US/LM I have experienced dramatic changes in my life, and I would like to mention them here along with some notes. When I first knew about subliminal I thought it was nonsense, in fact in my reality, if you tell anyone that an audio could potentially change your life, they will think you are insane. You can see where I am coming from.

After I was hit but major success with DMSI 2.5 and now US/LM I can't help it but give credits to the subs and say you are doing an awesome job here.

Thanks, it's motivating to hear positive things about the results people get with what I'm doing. Sometimes I get stuck in the avalanche of "It's not good enough!" and it makes me feel hopeless. That's part of why I created USLM in the first place.

Now you have a secret weapon!

Back to USLM

Communication

I noticed that I communicate really well, and here is the interesting part, I am speaking my third language flawlessly. I don't ever practice this language, however I do have to speak it sometimes when I am around certain people. Before US/LM I had to consciously think for the word before I can say it, its like I scan my brain for the word. But now I speak it fluently (flow state). The words come naturally to me.

Sleep pattern

For almost 3 years now, I had weird sleeping pattern. I would sleep at 4am and wake up at 2pm, 3pm or even 4pm. And by the time I have my first meal and go to the gym I find my day is almost over. Plus I would be really tired and lazy for the entire day and find it hard to do anything productive. Meanwhile with the routine change, I am energized for the entire day. It was hard for me to fall asleep during the night, and I would usually spend it on social media.

With USLM, I fall asleep at 11pm-12am without effort and wake up at 7am. This is a MAJOR change to my daily routine and my mood.

If you are asleep all day, you cannot be productive. It makes for a great escape tactic. I know, because this plagued me for decades. I defeated it by adapting my lifestyle to it, and then my subconscious tried to escape by revolving it. I went through a few years where I would sleep until I woke up, work until I dropped, and repeat. Each day I would push myself a little more, with my subconscious trying to do this to make me unable to stay awake. This meant that every day, I was pushing my time-to-bed later and waking up later. It became a revolving sleep schedule. But when I was free to sleep until I woke up, I always went to my office and worked a full day regardless.

It's a subconscious tactic for escaping having to be productive. That's why you saw such a drastic shift from USLM usage. You're not trying to escape success anymore.

Workout

7years ago I had a great workout routine which I made solid improvements however I took my success for granted and went into what I would describe a chaotic-workout routine for almost 3 years now in which I made no progress. However with USLM I started doing things I would have never done otherwise. I consciously redefined my goals in this area of my life and then went to find the best workout program for my case (I never followed someone's else workout routine because I always thought I knew it all!). Not that only but I also started to effectively take notes of my entire set program and recording the used weights.

Now here is the shocking part, I used to over workout and and spend 1.5hr-2hrs at the gym. Now with my new program I am spending only 40mins and have better results than before.


Financial investments

I struggled with financial investments for a while now, nothing seem to work. Every approach I took seemed a total chaos. With enough emotional pain and struggle I had a brilliant aha moment last year as to how to do it right and effectively. I thought here is my breakthrough moment. However going from theory (aha moment) to actually implementing the idea into my approach with investment was a no easy job at all. I tried all my best but it just didn't work right and went back to the chaotic approach. Now with USLM I found the missing part into my approach and I am back to implementing that idea I had last year successfully and its going well!


Using USLM to figure out how to execute DMSI again

Since I am planning to use DMSI 3.3 when it comes out, I started to consciously question why I went from execution mode at v2.5 to resistance with the later versions. I brought to this conclusion; Fear of performance.

This fear come from my first ex who was extremely protective in regard to sex. During our first times to have sex she was very protective which to me seemed dominant and immediate turn off. Of course at that time I was so young and I never realized that my turn off (going soft) was her problem and not mine. I blamed myself for it, I even blamed the condom. Because this blame I took it created anxiety and stress moments to have sex with her afterwards.

Thankfully, this anxiety and stress didn't exist with other women. However something else existed which is premature ejaculation.

* Note: for me PE is 5min or less of intercourse.


Now I think most people who suffer from PE is mainly due to the following

Premature ejaculation comes from childhood-teenage, because we were taught that masturbation is bad, I associated negative feelings; like Shame to it. Therefore whenever I had the urge to masturbate I would try to finish fast. Add porn to this and you get the perfect recipe for premature ejaculation. Of course at the time I was not aware of all this but by now, the psychological damage is already done. And my brain is trained to follow this approach.

When I was using DMSI v2.5 I slept with a 9/10 female. we both had an intense orgasm under 5min (of course thanks to DMSI) not that only but she was shocked saying this was her first time ever having an orgasm during sex. I believe this was not just a normal DMSI manifestation but it was a particular manifestation to fix this particular problem by sending a subconscious message to me that PE is not a problem at all to stop execution. However since 3.0 came shortly after 2.5 my resistance started hard.


I don't watch porn or masturbate frequently anymore maybe 1-2 a month, however when I do I ejaculate within 5min time frame or less.

Yesterday, I had an idea (not sure why I did it) I wanted to try watching porn on my phone using the VR (virtual reality) technology. I wanted to observe what is going to happen without jerking or touching my part at all.

here is what happened. While watching, passed min 5 I was in a very high state of arousal, and I came to total ejaculation at the min 8 without touching or jerkin off at all!

this is shocking to me but it does prove that my PE condition is absolutely psychological. my brain cells are so used to releasing dopamine within this certain time frame.

Not sure where USLM is taking me with this one. Any comments shannon?

Some women can achieve orgasm in a few minutes from the proper stimulation. Some women take many tens of minutes, or even an hour or more. When you experienced the 9/10 and achieved orgasm together in 5 minutes, what you were seeing was that 5 minutes is plenty if you find the right woman.

You can train yourself to last longer, and in fact it's probably a good idea to do that. Most women appreciate sex lasting 20 minutes at least. But if you figure out how to get her off faster, then she's not really going to care. Most women also don't care how long you last as long as you don't get to the finish line without them. So just make sure she comes before you even get inside her. And communicate. What does she need to be happy with sex?