07-12-2018, 02:47 AM
Rellying on "tactics" and "gimmicks" for attracting a girl is a stupid way to go. Yes they can spark attraction, yes they can get you 30 minutes into "something" that might happen, yes they are amusing and when girls laugh it feels so good - but in reallity it's not important.
Even if you get that girl, what's the point? You will believe it was the "tactic" and not "you". You either study more tactics or you quit this whole nonsense.
One can always be short on tactics, neither when one is in a healthy relashionship does he think "omg i need to do one tactic or my girl will leave me" after one year of being togeather. That would be insane. But this is what i see people do. They are always thinking that what they said or what they did attracted the girl, but it was something entirely different.
In pua, not to mention "state crashes" when you analyze being "in state" or "out of state" and contraversly never being in "state", because you are always micromanaging it, and its a mental desease.
Im not saying PUA is 100% bad, it has it flaws, but there are many many things in it that are destructive and there is a better way of doing things.
Even if you get that girl, what's the point? You will believe it was the "tactic" and not "you". You either study more tactics or you quit this whole nonsense.
One can always be short on tactics, neither when one is in a healthy relashionship does he think "omg i need to do one tactic or my girl will leave me" after one year of being togeather. That would be insane. But this is what i see people do. They are always thinking that what they said or what they did attracted the girl, but it was something entirely different.
In pua, not to mention "state crashes" when you analyze being "in state" or "out of state" and contraversly never being in "state", because you are always micromanaging it, and its a mental desease.
Im not saying PUA is 100% bad, it has it flaws, but there are many many things in it that are destructive and there is a better way of doing things.
DMSI 3.3.1-D.
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