Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3

[JackOfHearts]

Seeing how attraction affects girls lately much more than I have in my entire life in just a month I can say that attraction isn't you think it is especially when girls are concerned.

I haven't use the last DMSI version though but I have seen literally at least 40 women if not more showing very obvious interest repeatedly, even my blind male friends noticed it. Out of all that attraction and some that I even spoke to and ask for numbers none actually did anything about it some even batlantly rejected me after I showed interest in them some ran away, some couldn't even talk (shaking heavily)

Attraction isn't the portal to easy sex on a daily basis if you don't act on it and even if you act on it actually, at least in my experience from where I live. It seems to me that you have to be very confident and you have to keep acting until she is completely safe to say yes to your request, not just once but multiples times until she knows for sure everything is completely safe. And even if it is completely safe and you spend 7 days with a girl some might not even admit that they are attracted or interested in you. It seems for most girls to say yes to an invitation is as hard as for a guy to ask a girl out. Most guy need to be completely drunk to ask a girl out or talk to one, it seems for girls to answer to a guy request positively is as hard for them.

I'm actually starting to doubt more profoundly that it is possible to make the girl act on their sexual interest unless that girl is confident to begin with and even if she is confident it might not be enough.

I'm experiencing very similar.

The mass attraction is off the roof. So many stares in a day. Lots of them even have this orgasmic look on their face. It's clear they are turned on by my aura/energy.

In interactions, some don't go anywhere. I approached this hottie who looked at me twice. She has a bf so didn't wanna take our interaction further, which is fair enough lol.

But there were two other girls who I'm pretty sure were very single, and were interested in the moment, and they also suggested themselves we should hang out again. Yet afterwards they'd flake and I never saw them again.

I kinda agree the attraction needs something more for sex to happen. Perhaps more comfort or something. Or I gotta be more persistent on my part.

Or you could just be seeing the effects of an unbalanced, unfinished DMSI and assuming that is all there is... I know you guys are dying to believe that man must initiate, but really, that's not true. And when we get finished, you will see for yourself.

Must I don't think so but the amount of girls able to initiate a conversation on their own is very low, sex even lower. So I would say it's out of character or out of the norm for a girl to initiate. I don't think it's impossible for them to initiate as I have seen it.

Actually I may not have explained myself properly above.

Girls usually don't initiate directly and straightforwardly, when they do initiate a conversation like most guys they will pretend they aren't doing it because they want you. I have heard the excuse that they know me from somewhere at least 5 times this month when they initiated conversations with me.
I think it's easier for them to initiate as long as you don't reciprocate the interest in them but once you do it seems harder for them.
So if I look at it closely what I have seen from their perspective isn't really them initiating but having the intent to make me initiate so I show my interest and when I show interest they go crazy and run
To their perspective they can pretend they weren't interested at all, they thought they knew me, it was mistake I guess complete denial.

A truly initiating girl would say something like " You look sexy, let's go grab a beer and talk or let's go somewhere to f**k"

I'm going to try that next time on them, maybe the rate would higher than just talking to them

Hmm... what exactly did you wann try next time? I didn't get that one...

To be more direct instead using the crab strategy.
It seems what they want is me to take all the risk so they feel safe.
The problem I may have is thinking that leading may just be talking to a girl, starting the conversation. But if the conversation has no clear precise goal maybe that's just giving the leading role to the person you are talking to.

If I say to a girl "let's go on that table to talk because I think you are sexy, I want to know you" , then that's much direct and clear than saying "hi and sharing, name".
In both case the girl know you are here for something more than conversation but in the first case you are saying what you want to do with her.