07-26-2013, 04:20 PM
(07-26-2013, 05:57 AM)Joronda Wrote: Guy one is using part of the "double your dating" techniques of picking up women, but he needs to e-mail and get phone numbers so he can ring a couple of days later and invite her to meet him somewhere for a coffee.
There is merit in walking up to lots of women and starting a conversation so that you lose your shyness, but at some point you need to go to the next level if you are serious at getting regular sex.
A woman can feel a bit rejected and wonder what she did wrong, if a guy does not follow through and let her know he would like to see her again.
A lot of women go clubbing, hoping they meet someone who wants a long term friendship. It's up to guy to make it clear that he has enjoyed talking to her, and would like to get to know her better. If she gives him her e-mail and phone number, then usually she wants him to ring her within a week. She will go out with someone else if he doesn't get around to it.
If she does not like him, she may give him a false e-mail address or phone number.
Lol, I guess you're a PUA, am I right?
It's really not that hard to do man. Talk to a girl, continue the conversation, have some fun with it, exchange the info, and off you go. Rinse and repeat.
If you like her, keep seeing her and do what you want, if not, then don't. etc.
The reason I want to be able to talk to women is because once I can, I can do this, and it's gonna be a lot easier. I'll even start having dates and whatnot. But the ability/desire to talk to a woman needs to be there first. For some reason, I get reserved in an almost retreating way when around women. I think about myself, I get self-conscious, and I don't even think about her.
In reality, the way to do it is always focus on her. Ask her about herself, get her talking, make witty comments etc. I've done this before, and women go nuts, but it's always been in a controlled situation that I didn't initiate. My goal is to be able to initiate this WHENEVER I want, WHEREVER I am. It's gonna be awesome.
