01-25-2012, 10:24 PM
(01-25-2012, 06:17 PM)woceyes Wrote: Sorry to hear that Mastercheif but good to know spiral and i are not the only ones having difficulties. Didn't mean to write a book Mastercheif on your topic. Yes you spelt my name right.
I have been working on self improvement related to women long before i came here or even before i did Cory's stuff. In fact i did a lot of things through Eric disco way of teaching on approach anxiety. Ryan you know this as we talk all the time. Rainbow Your looking at our results through your perspective, you are also assuming a lot about us, we all do this to a point.
Also just because i am a virgin dose not mean i have never had women chasing me or offering to have sex with me. In fact after this set i realized just how many did since high school. This set pretty much made me feel really narcissistic. i had better results just on the flirt sub or aura of sexiness sub. Obviously i did not have sex with any of the girls that begged me in my past. I had plenty of women on this set eye me like a piece of meat but a lot of them i wasn't sexually attracted to and the ones that i am are married. I felt no drive or motivation to actually go have sex with any of them.
My expectations were not high on the sub. I never let my self get hyped up either for things, better to keep a level head vs high expectations about what "should" come from things. Do i have cool people wanting to hang out with me?.. yeah more so then i thought i would. Do i have guys creeping me out?.. yeah i get stared at by dudes yeah some are just in shock on how awesome i am and others are wanting me. Did my brain melt from the subs/resistance and had a total melt down? maybe im not sure
all and all Shannon you make awesome products. I will buy 2.0 and run it, ill have better luck next time.
I think, based on my own past behavior and what you describe matching really well, that what happened for you was resistance in large part, and it was manifesting in your refusal to accept what was coming to you for whatever reason. I am extremely picky about who I will have sex with in certain ways, and I typically refuse 8 or 9 offers of taking things beyond friendship for every one I accept, and then refuse 3 out of 4 offers of sex from there. But it's me, my choice. I accept that I am very particular and it has always been true that my typical pattern is to go a few years single and wandering through the desert sexually, and then have a flash flood, so to speak, which results in one or more women with whom I go crazy sexually and usually have a LTR out of the deal for the next few years.
You got results, but you refused them. I think that has a lot to do with you being a virgin, if you still are, in the sense that if you are a virgin for the reasons I was up until I lost mine, you're simply uncomfortable opening up that much to women because of trust issues and sensitive emotions. Sex for me is not a toy, and I have to consider the emotional impact it has on me, which is why I am so particular about who I will have sex with. Some of my friends tease me about being like a woman that way, but it is what it is.
As for guys wanting you... well, guys want me too. I think it's got to do in large part with the fact that an exceptional (and exceptionally valuable/attractive man) is going to attract the attention of those people who will be attracted to what he represents, and sometimes that will be men as well as women.
Version 2.0 is aimed at creating a more specific aura of "I'm heterosexual, don't pursue me if you're male".
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!