Sex Magnet 3 Question

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FluffyBunny,

EDIT: another thing is im going after girls i "Really Like" . i have a very hard time going for girls that i dont like.

What's wrong with going after what you like? Why are you forcing yourself to like girls that you don't like?

cause for example im getting signals left and right form girls all over the place. and what did i end up doing???
i end up approaching two extremely hot girls.

Look it from this way: will you eat something you don't like just because its available to you or will you aim to eat something which you like? So you like extremely hot girls, there's nothing wrong going after them.

but ur suppose to be netural to both ugly and beautiful girls.... and i am not.... so theres a problem ...

Are you aiming for some non-duality/zen type of thing here? Cause it looks like that from your above quotes too.

1. i have no idea. dude. cause i feel like those girls got something to offer too.... and im just being ignorance for not accepting it??
another thing is that. i have tendency to "fall in love first sight" so those are the girls im going for... then i get invested in the minute she shows a little interests... then everything goes side ways when i get invested too much lol.

its a little difference then girls i just find Hot. These ones sometimes i dont even talk to them..... cause i didnt get the "attraction" Bs ...that my head thinks lol.
im trying to figure shit out this pass couple weeks lol. having a shit ton of inner conflicts almost everyday.... chest sometimes gets intensely crazy... and all that.

2. Lets say the food doesnt look as good as other food. but then when i eat it , its tastes goooood.
the thing is im not getting the extremely hot girls .... yet.

3. yah i am . cause that will help me be myself 24/7 so i wont act in certain way with ugly woman then try to flirt with good looking woman with pressure ....
i wanna be in player mode 24/7 regardless of what type of woman i am encountering .. .

1. I think this is some kind of self-sabotage where you are thinking that you are doing wrong by going only after hot girls and that you are not being fair towards ugly girls. You are feeling guilty that you are not paying attention to all girls.
Getting invested too much might be a sign of neediness.

2. That can be your way, but generally men are visual, we like things that look good.

3. That's very very advance stuff man, don't kick yourself because you aren't there yet. You will get there with practice and subs.
And I think you misunderstood something.....it's being "non-needy towards every type of girl" not "desiring an ugly girl as much as you desire a hot girl".