Seems like the Magnets aren't all they're cut out to be.

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But... if a person wants to be a magnet they do need to let go of that pick-up / pursue women shit. It should get you there but if you don't want to or want to resist that (which can be hard) then you won't become a magnet.

Ryan or some one else, could you clarify this for me? Please. I study some good stuff about seduction and now I wonder is there any sense to do this... because I`ll, probably, run WM for about month.

You can't teach someone to become a magnet, you just can't, so what point is there in reading PUA or learning tactics or even chasing women repeatedly if you want to be a magnet that attracts them to you? PUA is 100% counter-productive to being a legit ladies man who doesn't have to do a thing and already has women. This is what they refer to as a natural ladies man. It's all inside of you and the only way to have that happen is by changing your beliefs and negative traits. I found subliminals to be one of the easiest ways of doing that.

I think in a lot of cases guys repel the program because there are stages (for me at least) where the program detaches you from needing (and at times even wanting) women briefly. It can scare some guys because that's all they are focused on right now. I remember I was dating left and right, pursuing women, trying to get laid every other day on AM and in SM it just all stopped, almost immediately, I was down, I was unhappy and I didn't want to accept that I had to find other things to make me happy, but I literally no longer felt like working to get women. It was when I did, I saw the results I wanted, said "**** it" to every dating guru and bit of advice/information on dating I read and I just started accepting myself as a natural magnet. Then you realize, everything else is just ridiculous and it's extremely easy given the right mindset.

Interesting, I found reading Blackdragon's stuff during SM to be a major factor in my results. That said, his stuff isn't about cold-approaching strangers, its more about dating and relationship management.