09-05-2018, 06:45 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-05-2018, 11:38 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Three hunnuh' dolluh day. Awwww yeah.
It was crazy because it started off terrible. Once I made $100 I was done dealing with all the people. I felt like the aura was too powerful and getting people to auto-reject or shit-test hard. But I kept my emotions in check and refrained from getting angry.
It's funny because just today I was listening to "no more mr. nice guy" and he talks about masculinity and anger. I thought to myself "How can anger at people be a good thing?"
I sort of understood the basic idea of anger being a warning sign from your emotions that boundaries were being violated but I did not understand why anger should be employed consciously. So I decided to stop being angry (I tend to consciously become angry as a strategy to get what I want). It seemed to change things around at the door. LOTS of handshakes, compliments, people wishing me luck and wishing me financial success. One guy even told me "Anyone who says they aren't interested is... well, you just tell them 'take a look at this' " [he told me of a way to get people to almost always admit they needed my product. He, of course, was signed up already.]
EDIT: Oh yeah, almost forgot: I was also at a woman's house (the last sale of the night) and she's like "well? Are you coming in?" and I explained to her how I wasn't the guy to set things up. I do wonder about that tho.
I also saw a HOT 8in a gas station today. I was waiting behind her in line and left space for her to go directly to the door once she was done so I could move to the counter immediately. When she's done paying, she turns around and stares me dead in the eyes and then walks towards the door. I felt like she did that just to look at me since I was out of the way.
Then when I got outside myself, she was pumping gas and we stared at each other till she looked away.
It was crazy because it started off terrible. Once I made $100 I was done dealing with all the people. I felt like the aura was too powerful and getting people to auto-reject or shit-test hard. But I kept my emotions in check and refrained from getting angry.
It's funny because just today I was listening to "no more mr. nice guy" and he talks about masculinity and anger. I thought to myself "How can anger at people be a good thing?"
I sort of understood the basic idea of anger being a warning sign from your emotions that boundaries were being violated but I did not understand why anger should be employed consciously. So I decided to stop being angry (I tend to consciously become angry as a strategy to get what I want). It seemed to change things around at the door. LOTS of handshakes, compliments, people wishing me luck and wishing me financial success. One guy even told me "Anyone who says they aren't interested is... well, you just tell them 'take a look at this' " [he told me of a way to get people to almost always admit they needed my product. He, of course, was signed up already.]
EDIT: Oh yeah, almost forgot: I was also at a woman's house (the last sale of the night) and she's like "well? Are you coming in?" and I explained to her how I wasn't the guy to set things up. I do wonder about that tho.
I also saw a HOT 8in a gas station today. I was waiting behind her in line and left space for her to go directly to the door once she was done so I could move to the counter immediately. When she's done paying, she turns around and stares me dead in the eyes and then walks towards the door. I felt like she did that just to look at me since I was out of the way.
Then when I got outside myself, she was pumping gas and we stared at each other till she looked away.
