02-26-2018, 08:43 PM
(02-26-2018, 08:31 PM)wolverine_i_am Wrote:(02-26-2018, 08:26 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(02-26-2018, 08:20 PM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: I don't think there's anything wrong with initiating a conversation, if you happen to see a chick beside you. If she initiates, that's an extra.
Yeah that's the way I'm leaning but, truth be told, I'd only open her because I was attracted to her. If she was a woman I didn't find attractive, I would not have chatted her up. I don't chat people up it's just not "me". Therefore, if I DID chat her up, wouldn't that be putting her on a pedestal?
I'm so confused.
Nah I just see it as seeing where it goes without expectations. And you genuinely have to feel that way. It isn't pedestalling at all.
I don't believe it doing it for the sake of it either. Only initiate if you really are attracted
Yeah I'll give it a go next time. Thanks for offering your perspective. I appreciate it.
