12-29-2017, 11:25 AM
(12-29-2017, 10:48 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I'm lost again.
Getting good with women is so f*cking weird. You gotta be a certain way, but you gotta be congruent, but you gotta be congruent in a way the chick likes, not in a way she doesn't like, but you can't be a certain way to get chicks to like you or you're being desperate or try hard, but you can't "be yourself" because that hasn't worked your whole life.
F*CK!
I'm so confused and I can't do anything anymore. I feel like I'm caged.
All I'm looking for is a way to develop into an attractive, successful man that is congruent with who I am. Is that so hard?
Yes, turns out it is, because I've pretty much realized I'm NOT an attractive man unless I'm a mysterious wallflower, then people seem to flock to me like moths to flame but I have no idea why. And if I talk, they scatter. It's the weirdest shit ever.
FML
If they're flocking it's because they find you intriguing. If they leave the second you open your mouth, it's because despite your appearance, you're really not that interesting.
