SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha

[SargeMaximus]

Lol, you're actually a twat. In no way was that an attack but somehow you've taken it as such

While K-Train is discouraging you, I'm commending you for having a desired outcome and going for it. There are numerous ways of getting to it, how you're going to do it is up to you.

Lol, my bad?

I do that a lot, I'm trying to fix it. But understand, when someone tells me I have an issue but offer no solution, it doesn't really come across as helpful.

I thought ktrain was quite insightful tbh.

Anyhow, thanks for the kudos.

It's not my place to tell you what to do, you have to figure that out for yourself.

Which is what I'm doing...

K-Train may or may not be aware of your other history with that girl such as you having already taken her out on a date and making out with her. Usually with women you have to strike while its hot. Very rarely if ever they give second chances. Though after seeing how much you desire her, that may change her mind.

Honestly in that paragraph I posted before about subtext, if it wasn't blindingly obvious to you what she was saying (women talk sub-textually while men talk overtly) she was basically telling you why she isn't interested in you and why she's interested in the fire man "he's done well for himself. He's a chief now, etc etc"

Yeah that could be. I figured she was just trying to see if I'd get jealous. But I'll take your experience over mine in that regard.

EDIT: However, I thought that in order to be alpha you SHOULDN'T be a provider.

Combine that with the fact that she's full time employed, divorced with two children to feed. Having a **** buddy is probably low on her list of wants and needs, lower than finding a stable guy who can support her.

Yeah but I have no problem wit her finding a stable guy... while we are FB's on the side.

I don't get why that can't be a thing.