11-28-2017, 06:12 PM
Hey there Sarge. I think what Determined is alluding to (he can correct me if I'm wrong) is the fact that your hairdresser *seems* (keyword SEEMS, because we ain't there so we don't know) to NOT be interested in you in anything other than a platonic customer-business associate relationship then why continue to entertain her in any setting outside of business.
Now here's the thing, and this is all IMO: IF you yourself genuinely do NOT mind being in a platonic relationship with your hairdresser outside of business interactions then it's your right and no harm no foul. However, IF you DO mind, and you DO want something MORE than a platonic relationship with your hairdresser outside of business interactions then it SEEMS counterproductive to keep talking with her in that specific regard.
All that being said, it's all you man. We're not there, and if you feel all this is necessary for your development, have at it.
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On another note, I've had the same issue with women showing a shit ton of interest and then it stalls out. In one case it *may* have been due to the anti-sniper cause one chick was revealed to be a bit of a drama queen or as people in the states call it, "ratchet".
Now here's the thing, and this is all IMO: IF you yourself genuinely do NOT mind being in a platonic relationship with your hairdresser outside of business interactions then it's your right and no harm no foul. However, IF you DO mind, and you DO want something MORE than a platonic relationship with your hairdresser outside of business interactions then it SEEMS counterproductive to keep talking with her in that specific regard.
All that being said, it's all you man. We're not there, and if you feel all this is necessary for your development, have at it.
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On another note, I've had the same issue with women showing a shit ton of interest and then it stalls out. In one case it *may* have been due to the anti-sniper cause one chick was revealed to be a bit of a drama queen or as people in the states call it, "ratchet".
